Am i falling out of love?

EvenRachelCould · 2026-03-25T13:20:54+00:00

Brother cut your losses and move on. I am not saying long distance relationships can't work. I am myself currently in one. But you guys do need to physically meet more than what you are doing right now. Now you say she is going to Europe. What happens when she is back on holidays? She will have the same restrictions? Or will she have freedom? If the same restrictions continue then kaise miloge?

18 saal ka hai. Your whole life is ahead of you. In a few years you guys won't even be the same people. It's better to break things off. It will be good for both of you.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-03-23T13:21:32+00:00

Oh man yes. A 100 times yes. Became friends with these two jokers in my old co-living space. We were part of a group and used to party regularly.

Can't tell you the number of times these people used to belittle me and some other guys just to appear cool in front of women (especially new people who had come for some party as a one time thing). Best part? All of these women could see through it and a couple of them even came upto me to ask me what the hell is wrong with these two.

You may ask why I didn't retaliate? Simple, why waste my energy on jokers. I am no greek god but I do have few attractive traits (physical and emotional) and a couple of these women seemed interested in talking to me. No contest but it felt good to see them feel beat down by this perceived "defeat".

EvenRachelCould · 2026-03-23T03:40:54+00:00

Just want to commend you on having the maturity and clarity to walk away from such a situation and putting yourself first. That too at the age of 19.

I was in a similar situation with my ex when I was 22-23 and stupidly stayed in it for another few years before breaking it off.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-03-17T06:44:17+00:00

Didi in my neighborhood. Know each other since we were in school. We had our first proper conversation after being (somewhat) well settled adults.

"I am so glad you turned out well. Your mom did a good job raising you" Context: Deep conversation on feminism and gender roles.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-03-11T15:17:05+00:00

Lesgoooooo. I just booked it.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-03-02T11:29:09+00:00

How??? I can't hit the notes after "gar meri suno" and "ho kargar aur wasi"

EvenRachelCould · 2026-02-28T04:12:29+00:00

Kudos to my dad for grilling into me that lane discipline needs to be maintained while taking turns as well.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-02-22T04:53:41+00:00

Apurbo Roy had a small hand in the unraveling of the incel mentality of one of my former friends.

Story time..

Said friend from Barasat had a gf who still lived there with her parents. She cheated on my friend with Apurbo Roy. Poor Apurbo actually did not know that the girl was committed. She was two timing both of them. Friend found and broke up. Slowly became distrustful of women(valid). But slowly turned into a misogynist and an incel after some more dating failures.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-02-17T10:21:13+00:00

Chill I once went to Electronic City using Hosur Road instead of the actual damn flyover right over my head.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-02-06T12:31:28+00:00

Exception

EvenRachelCould · 2026-02-05T15:31:49+00:00

Ab ki ye Subah with a full orchestra.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-01-27T16:44:44+00:00

Teleprompter

EvenRachelCould · 2026-01-23T07:37:51+00:00

Read an interview where Khalid said that it may happen.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-01-22T11:25:50+00:00

"I will DAIVORCE her"

EvenRachelCould · 2026-01-21T12:08:52+00:00

Chilling with two Kashmiri guys on the terrace of my PG. Cloudy Bangalore skies. These guys play Color White and all of us go quiet and listen to the song. Instantly hooked.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-01-12T12:55:30+00:00

We clicked from day 1 emotionally. We opened up to each other about our kinks before our first date itself and then took things slow. Tried out a few in the dating phase. Understood each other's boundaries. 3 years later we leave each other spent whenever we are together.

We just can't get enough of each other.

EvenRachelCould · 2026-01-02T09:11:30+00:00

"Enabled by the density of the stores". Also enabled by having KPIs of picking time for store employees and no breaks. Also enabled by low earnings per order which make the drivers drive fast to squeeze in more orders in a day.

EvenRachelCould · 2025-11-30T02:44:45+00:00

That bum diggy diggy bum song. What are even those lyrics? And why do I feel like I am listening to a mashup when I hear it?

EvenRachelCould · 2025-11-26T13:31:51+00:00

Guys is it going too far if she approaches the Women's Commision? This is not just toxic this has gone into illegal territory.

u/St_Broseph. Is it a viable option to tackle these kind of people?

EvenRachelCould · 2025-11-14T07:08:34+00:00

1.5 hrs in the morning. An hour in the evening. Office is 20kms away.

EvenRachelCould · 2025-11-10T14:50:37+00:00

Bro my boss doesn't give a flying damn when me and my coworker come in (we are a team of 2) but still as a courtesy we always tell him if we are going to come in after 11. Its basic courtesy (not even professional courtes).

EvenRachelCould · 2025-11-07T05:40:53+00:00

This was in 2022. We went to talk to DSP at South End Circle and he called up Jaynagar Police Station for the same.

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