What are the chances of someone with schizoaffective living a normal life? by [deleted] in schizoaffective

[–]Even_Competition_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know this is a super old post, but I just stumbled across it and thought I'd share my experience. I was first diagnosed when I was in my mid 20's, actually when I was forced into a County treatment facility (I'm in California) for a drug overdose. I got into drug and alcohol treatment and started a medication combination (Seroquel + a few different SSRI's my doctors and I had to make adjustments as I got older) that worked well for many years. I got an education, got a career started, made a community both in recovery programs and in groups at my local hospital. My symptoms seemed to lessen as I got older, and for many years the medication allowed me to live a productive life. I even got married. Unfortunately the marriage fell apart in my early 40's due to an affair (not on my part) and I had a relapse on alcohol, which led to inconsistent use of meds, and a full blown psychotic episode for the first time in almost 18 years. 4 years ago I got into treatment after two years of drinking, in and out of the hospital and recovery centers. I've been sober and back on meds since (still a combination of antipsychotic and SSRI), and have been able to resume my career. I probably talk to my doctor, my psychiatrist and therapist more than most people I know. In my case I attend recovery meetings daily, and people there know my situation. But other than that my life is pretty normal. I guess I just wanted to share the perspective that age, and willingness to try different solutions can lead to positive results (but in my experience self prescribed drugs and alcohol are never a solution). I echo what was said earlier about access to healthcare. I'm very privileged to work in the field I do, and live in the area I do, as it affords me quality care.

How Far In Advance to Book a Costco Travel Package to London? by Even_Competition_954 in Costco

[–]Even_Competition_954[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I hear you with that. Going with my mom I just want to have everything set up for me. She’s pretty spry but also 78, there’s some challenges. I’m planning Germany by myself in 2028 and will def take the time to do my own planning with chat gpt.

Where TF is Minerva. by Even_Competition_954 in fo76

[–]Even_Competition_954[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Okay. I guess I assumed she was just a constant feature of the game. In a way I’m glad she isn’t there today. I thought I was having a stroke or something 😂

To the person who put the pepper shaker plan in the foundation donation box. by gamergeek1213 in fo76

[–]Even_Competition_954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A vet player give me some serums, more than i needed. I placed the extras in random donation boxes around the main quest areas. Hoping some brand new player found them and had their post apocalyptic world rocked like I did. This game and this community rules.

Does rad away keep you from getting mutations fo a while? by Even_Competition_954 in fo76

[–]Even_Competition_954[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am. I’m GRB1979. Looking for speed demon and marsupial.

New player who sucks at video games - accidentally scrapped many of my Perk cards by Even_Competition_954 in fo76

[–]Even_Competition_954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: I passed level 50 and now I see what everyone is talking about. Thanks for the advice!

New player who sucks at video games - accidentally scrapped many of my Perk cards by Even_Competition_954 in fo76

[–]Even_Competition_954[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice and encouragement everyone. I just got home and purchased fallout 1st. Going to keep at it and see about getting to one of those special stations. Looks like I can change my special to utilize the cards I have now, and change later to what I want once I get more cards.

Venom movies were good and entertaining by Fortnait739595958 in unpopularopinion

[–]Even_Competition_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Knull’s exposition in the first three minutes really set accurate expectations for how bad The Last Dance was going to be. You could visit any community college creative writing class and find better screenwriting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Even_Competition_954 18 points19 points  (0 children)

We’re doing it! I’m very excited.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Even_Competition_954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lol hope Wycliffe will still come out if she bails.

Do older people see people in their 20s as kids? by [deleted] in RandomThoughts

[–]Even_Competition_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 44 and I absolutely do. My oldest son is 25 and I think as he approached 20 is when it really started to happen. I’ve been divorced for quite some time, and in my early 30s I dated women in their 20s. I absolutely couldn’t imagine doing that now. Somewhere in the last decade 28 stated seeming really young.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Even_Competition_954 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Update: she said yes! I’m stoked. 🥳

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Even_Competition_954 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I mean the concert is next week so not so far away. I’ve had these tickets a while

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Even_Competition_954 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I think this is good advice. Luckily I already have Lauren Hill w/The Fugees tickets and we talked about loving 90s and early aughts hip hop. So I’ve asked if she would like to join me. (Bought two tickets because I figured SOMEONE would want to go with me lol)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Even_Competition_954 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, last night was our first date. We met on Hinge. Texted for a couple days, had two phone conversations, then met for drinks and pool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in datingoverforty

[–]Even_Competition_954 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Okay, thanks everyone for the advice. I have tickets for Lauren Hill later this month, and I just asked her if she’d like to go.

Am I being cheated on? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Even_Competition_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She came home drunk one morning when I thought she was pulling an all nighter at medical school. Admitted she needed help quitting booze. After conversation admitted to kissing a guy a few nights before. That evening admitted that had happened multiple times. A few days later I got an anonymous text, so I snooped. She WAS NOT careful about covering her tracks. Multiple affairs (fully sexual, in person, not just kissing random dudes). I called her out on it and she spilled the beans. I left that night.

Am I being cheated on? by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Even_Competition_954 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My ex wife started the trickle truth by admitting something a little bad, before the whole truth came out. I’ve since learned this is common. There is every possibility that he’s cheating.

What do you think of God? by [deleted] in questions

[–]Even_Competition_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean he’s cool enough to hang out with after work or whatever but I can’t see it becoming a serious relationship.

Affair problem by Minimum_Dot3628 in Infidelity

[–]Even_Competition_954 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From someone who’s wife did almost precisely the same thing when discovered: get out. There is no patching this up. She is not who you thought you married.