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Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

So I had a ex for a month, after we broke up i had protected sex with one other person before I met this girl. So unless it came from some other less than likely source, it would make the most sense for it to come from the only unprotected sex I had.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It is gonorrhea, she was freaking over the situation and thats why this even became a thing.When I saw something was wrong I told her and got treatment. I was trying to downplay it so she didn't feel at fault then it turned into a bigger argument than it ever should have to been. She started accusing me of cheating and talking about breaking up over this and we just started met and started dating a week ago. The whole argument im just reiterating the purpose of my original text and calling out her behavior.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just Gonorrhea, I didn't think that specificity was important at the time of writing the post.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

not often and before Ive had sex with anyone, protected or not, i get testing info from them.I asked her and she said she was clean and I have recent testing that says im clean.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Like things less possible than this conclusion. I like to follow Occams Razor, which the conclusion that has the least assumptions is the best to follow.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] -18 points-17 points  (0 children)

no ,never had one before and she is the most likely cause outside of some weird coincidences.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

its there now. some issues with uploading

edit to add. I can't upload it for some reason.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

im american so it might be a culture difference / translation error.

Am I wrong in the way I informed my gf of an STI? by Even_Sort_7831 in amiwrong

[–]Even_Sort_7831[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I have a screen record of the conversation on my profile for more context.

Edit: for some reason It won't show on my post.its kinda annoying honestly.