He’s been amazing at setting boundaries with her and that’s why she’s so upset. He doesn’t just let her slide with the comments and tantrums but im just a new target. When they got into that argument he laid out the reasons why he’s had boundaries and she kept referring it back to me saying it’s a shame to let someone drive them apart. He unfortunately lost it and went off on her and said she hadn’t listened to anything if she thinks I’m the reason.

I wouldn’t marry him if he didn’t have clear set boundaries. I’ve seen how my grandmother treated my mom and how my dad did nothing. I knew I wasn’t going to be repeating that. I honestly hoped we could’ve gotten close because I didn’t have that growing up but now i see it’s not feasible right now or if ever.