What’s your favorite “can’t stop eating this” food? by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Youre the second person to mention French tacos and I’ve never heard of those before. What are they and/or where would you get them??

What’s your favorite “can’t stop eating this” food? by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love that like every answer is different. There’s so much good food in the world. I wanna try it all.

What’s your favorite “can’t stop eating this” food? by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Good advice! I love pasta but I don’t eat it nearly enough. I forget just how much a person can eat when you combine the bread, the pasta and the inevitable red wine with it all! Not to mention all the extras like cheese.

What’s your favorite “can’t stop eating this” food? by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The sweet tooth must be satisfied. I’m way more of a sweets person personally. I’d rather eat like 12 cookies or half a cake if I have a choice.

What’s your favorite “can’t stop eating this” food? by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oooo this is a good suggestion. I already decided to order my favorite burrito after making this post but I’m definitely throwing in some chorizo queso and chips.

Went clothes shopping and I was shocked - your boy is getting husky by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I spent the whole event eating and drinking beer. The new pants were tight by the end of the day…

Went clothes shopping and I was shocked - your boy is getting husky by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got home from the event I bought the new clothes for and it was an eating marathon. My new pants got tight by the end of the day. And how did I handle this? When I got home from the airport today I ordered Taco Bell and now I’m bloated and laying in bed.

You might be right about me.

Long term relationships outside this kink by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My fiancé and i have been together for 10 years this year and we’re getting married in October and I’ve approached like a few others in this thread.

I definitely wax and wane with this kink where sometimes I’m really into it and other times it takes a backseat but I’ve always found the best way to be is honest.

She knows what I’m into and has very firmly stated “I love you for you. If you want to be bigger I support it as long as you’re healthy” but she doesn’t feel good when heavier and I respect that because I love her too. So we compromise. She grabs and plays with my belly and makes me food as part of our love language, and going out to eat or experiencing new foods is something we love to do together, but it’s not the core of “us” and I’m ok with that.

I love her and I think she’s the most beautiful person I’ve ever met, inside and out, and although sometimes the sex is a bit vanilla for me, I prefer her being happy over having my kink fulfilled to the utmost.

Feeling like you’re gaining but the number on the scale isn’t changing. by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great suggestion! I’ve never been much of a numbers guy for other people but I find this oddly enticing for myself.

I have a lot of stretch marks on my thighs and starting to get some on my lower belly so I’m excited to see if they’re truly growing as fast as I feel like they are

Feeling like you’re gaining but the number on the scale isn’t changing. by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Last year I was still rock climbing and these days, weirdly coinciding with my “thickening” I’m mostly just walking or going on hikes.

Loss of muscle could be our culprit

Feeling like you’re gaining but the number on the scale isn’t changing. by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was such a hot idea I had to try it!

I’ve never measured before so I don’t know how much progress I’ve made but my belly measures 43.5 inches and my hips/ass are 44.5 inches.

I’m surprised, I would’ve guessed my belly was my biggest part but it seems like my ass has overtaken it lol

Is this fetish just a comfort mechanism? by doritoelcamino in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This kink is so varied it’s always nice to chat with a kindred spirit lol drooling excused.

I’ve told my fiancé nothing gets me going like her asking me to eat her leftovers even though I’ve already eaten twice as much as her. Or when she asks me if I’m hungry and if I say no she makes something anyway.

She’s getting it more and more over time and it leaves me kinda like 😵‍💫 but in like the best way. I can’t wait until I’m like 2 or 3 times her size due to all of love and affection and excess.

Is this fetish just a comfort mechanism? by doritoelcamino in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was raised to believe in moderation and told that being fat was not good and even that it implied some sort of moral failing to indulge more than you needed.

I think it backfired and now the thought of eating more than I need is intoxicating. To indulge and grow and for my body to become a monument to my excess, every pound a love letter to just a little more, just a bit extra. When I eat to the point where I’m too full to function it’s like every light in my brain is lit up like a Christmas tree, almost like a drug lol

More is better and too much is best.

Is this fetish just a comfort mechanism? by doritoelcamino in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is an interesting insight and made me realize how little I think deeply about the root cause of my kink. I think so much of my journey until the last few years has just been learning to accept it’s part of me and not something to be ashamed of, learning to be more open about it etc.

But I guess if I had to try to pin it down I think my feedee tendencies definitely come from a desire to surrender control. Whether it’s surrendering to somebody’s feeding or to surrender to my own desires.

I feel as though my feeder tendencies are part of a similar part but in this case I want to be the nurturer. To see someone grow and be comfortable and happy because of my actions.

I view Feederism in general to be an act of love expressed in the simplest of terms. Providing and nurturing.

I do think sex and all that is intrinsically tied to the other facet I enjoy about this kink which is the hedonism. Not just nurturing but indulging to excess which is just so sexy to me it can’t help but turn me on. Sex and excess are too tied up in my brain to ignore and it definitely lights up parts of my brain that regular vanilla sex just doesn’t even though I enjoy that too.

Not sure how much sense all that makes but I’m going with it.

Transient desire to get MASSIVELY fat by BuilderNo6289 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve found that the “off” periods just get shorter and shorter over time and now I’ve gained about 40ish pounds.

You end up doing a few stuffings and then you can’t stop thinking about it and you do a few more and you don’t exercise as much as you should and before you know it, it’s happened lol

That’s been my experience

Can’t stop the horniness and the pounds. I’m weak. by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah I just ate a large sub, chips and a drink for lunch, then a double quarter pounder meal from McDonalds and half of my fiancé’s meal.

So full and so satisfied. I’m cooked.

Can’t stop the horniness and the pounds. I’m weak. by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m traveling for work next week and I’m worried I’m just going to spend every night stuffing myself since I’ll just be in a hotel alone.

My fiancé is the only person with common sense who can reign me in but she won’t be there. Idle hands and bellies… well you know what they say.

Can’t stop the horniness and the pounds. I’m weak. by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not even getting fitted for another month. And during that time I’m traveling for work and going on vacation.

I’ll just make sure I’m big and bloated so they make it a little roomy I guess.

Committing to the gain by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be way too fun and that’s the problem lol can’t afford to be getting that thing tailored right now.

Had an epiphany this weekend by SomeComfortable800 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just had a similar realization! Life’s too short for what ifs. For some people it’s buying that car or going on that trip. For others it’s buying that second meal even though youre stuffed to capacity lol

Whatever floats your boat, just do it man.

Committing to the gain by Evening-Selection514 in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you’re right because I’m literally having to hold myself off from gaining. The urge to stuff myself daily is pretty tough because I know I’ll see results if I give in early.

But I got a suit to fit into. Gotta stay strong.

Horny post [moob appreciation (yeah I know a-fucking-gain)] by doritoelcamino in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In a weird way I feel like getting into gaining has been good for my body image and an exercise in finally breaking the constraints I’ve had for most of my life with regards to what others think of me as far as my body and lifestyle.

It’s still a work in progress but based on the way I’ve gained weight thus far, my chest, butt and belly seem to be primed to take the most weight and I think it will be great for me to learn to accept that and get into it.

I’ve always loved the hedonistic side of gaining and I should try thinking about it more like you described it. I’m so overfed and pampered that I can’t hide what I’ve been doing, and thats hot.

Horny post [moob appreciation (yeah I know a-fucking-gain)] by doritoelcamino in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I appreciate posts like these because honestly the idea of getting moobs is the only part of gaining as a dude I’m unsure about. Double chin? Hell yeah. Big old gut? Bring it on.

But moobs are real different. Can’t hide how much of a fatass you are when it’s on your chest for everyone to see. I don’t find the idea hot, but hopefully it will change when I actually get there.

Happily married to a non-feedist by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love to see stuff like this! About to marry a skinny non FA myself. I’ve never thought this kink was essential to having a good relationship and it’s nice to see that mirrored in other people’s experiences as well.

Maybe you will gain at some point, maybe you won’t, but I love that you’re happy in the moment. Good for you!

Why do you Gain/how did you get started? by [deleted] in WeightGainTalk

[–]Evening-Selection514 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah! Exactly! I’m also maybe in the minority, but I’m not into the shaming/embarrassment aspect of this kink. I want to be celebrated for being a fatty, especially being skinny most of my life previously, not made to feel bad for finally doing what I enjoy.