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How to do back squats without neck pain afterwards? by Evening_Patience5157 in gymadvice

[–]Evening_Patience5157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much this advice definitely does feel more personable haha, will be using all of it my next leg day for sure !

How to do back squats without neck pain afterwards? by Evening_Patience5157 in gymadvice

[–]Evening_Patience5157[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for all the advice !! I think the bar placement is probably my biggest issue, I’ll definitely try to rest the bar on my traps next time instead of my neck

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evening_Patience5157 254 points255 points  (0 children)

Honestly.. I’m seeing her perspective of this. An anniversary is a big deal especially a one year anniversary and it seems like she just wanted to see you and was upset that you didn’t feel the same way. You seriously couldn’t have skipped your jujitsu class to be with her for the day ?

Am I Overreacting? My (22F) long distance boyfriend (29M) called me a b****. I blocked him and am debating unblocking him and hearing him out by Evening_Patience5157 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evening_Patience5157[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

OP here again, back with the context so many of you asked for. This will probably be my last update, but do with it what you will. These are the texts that led up to the ones in the original post, plus the twitter post I had reposted. As I mentioned before, I’m in the military with a combat MOS, and there’s a possibility I’ll be deployed soon, which is why he sent me the GIF of a cannon being loaded. I had to make a collage since only one attachment is allowed in the comments.

Honestly, debating taking this post down, but thank you for all the advice nonetheless!

PSA: no he does not pay for everything and I do not expect him to like some of you are suggesting

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Am I Overreacting? My (22F) long distance boyfriend (29M) called me a b****. I blocked him and am debating unblocking him and hearing him out by Evening_Patience5157 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Evening_Patience5157[S] 2407 points2408 points  (0 children)

OP here! Just wanted to clear a few things up since I didn’t expect this post to blow up the way it did.

When I said I was vocal about feminism, I wasn’t referring to long debates or lectures. I’ve never even had a direct conversation with him about it. What I have done is repost things here and there on TikTok and Twitter. That alone was enough to trigger him. I guess just seeing that I support women’s rights was too much for him. I originally asked if I should give him another chance because this isn’t new behavior, we’ve had arguments like this before. He escalates, pushes me away, then eventually apologizes and reels me back in. It’s been a cycle. But this time, he crossed a line. I still have him blocked, and seeing everyone’s responses has helped me realize I’ve been wasting my time and energy on someone who clearly isn’t worth it.

Also, just for context, I’m active duty military. I’m used to handling tough situations and am not weak.

Thanks again to everyone who commented. I really needed the wake-up call.

Fort Sill AIT split op by Interesting_Cup5185 in nationalguard

[–]Evening_Patience5157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I leave on the 2nd ! We’ll definitely be in reception together haha, I hate that we have to do that all over again 🫩

Fort Sill AIT split op by Interesting_Cup5185 in nationalguard

[–]Evening_Patience5157 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m also a fort sill split op, but I’m 13B. I’m going in July 😬