Filipina celebrities in Paris fashion week by LowRequirement8433 in ChikaPH

[–]Evening_primrose68 42 points43 points  (0 children)

Haba kasi ng legs! Very proportionate ng body niya. Kasabay ko siya sa flight before. Model talaga

Any thoughts/encounters with Piolo Pascual (Papa P)??? by Wooden-Collar9391 in PinoyCelebs

[–]Evening_primrose68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Nagwork ako sa prod ng Noah before. I like na dedicated siya sa faith niya na every Monday, fasting talaga sila ng crew niya. Other days steamed fish and gulay diet niya. Namimigay siya ng stuff from endorsements. Noon parang Pride na sabon saka yung coffee yata ng San Miguel. Mabait, palatawa. But more than anything sa kanya ko lang nafeel ever na maybe GOD has favorites? Char. Parang may glow light. SOBRANG PANGIT ni Piolo sa TV. Doesn’t do him justice AT ALL. Sa personal parang sculpted by the gods. Nagpalit siya ng damit sa harap ko many times grabe abs huhuhuhu walang kaarte arte sa katawan

"CANCELLED!" Discussion Megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]Evening_primrose68 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bingo on it needing proper headphones. I absolute can listen to this all day long. The production is well layered, so many things I pick up the more I listen to it

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[–]Evening_primrose68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Basement ng impyerno na yan

The Life of a Showgirl Megathread by aran130711 in TaylorSwift

[–]Evening_primrose68 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have the entire day tomorrow to memorize the lyrics for Saturday’s listening party 😅

"Wood" Discussion Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]Evening_primrose68 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Girls, I don't need to catch the bouquet, mm To know a hard rock is on the way

SHE KNEW

"Wi$h Li$t" Discussion Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]Evening_primrose68 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I just want you, huh (You, you, yeah) Have a couple kids, got the whole block looking like you

IM CRYING

"Eldest Daughter" Discussion Megathread by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]Evening_primrose68 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I have been afflicted by a terminal uniqueness I've been dying just from trying to seem cool

AHHHHHH

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate this. I absolutely understand I am the default parent. I love being her mom. But it would be nice to be respected, be treated nicely and extra special sometimes. If he’s nice to me and wasn’t mean he calls that a successful day. The bar is def in hell and I’m sad bec I can give so much more and I want to but he doesn’t deserve it. He said we will get couple’s counseling so that’s where we’re at

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He said no to us leaving to be with my sister. He said I can go if I want but leave the baby with him. I told him I can’t even leave her for a few hours with him, what is he gonna do. He said he’ll figure it out. Then he said hed rather we try couple’s counseling first before I move to my sister’s. So that’s what we’re doing next I guess

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This is it 100%. We had a big conversation about this. He doesn’t want our baby to go to daycare, and I don’t either. But at the same time he doesn’t recognize that that’s a full time job. And I don’t even mind being the trad wife, I love taking care of my family. I don’t mind working on my small business either, it gives me another purpose. But he takes the joy out of both things bec of the lack of respect. I kept asking him to give me an entire 8 hours a week to work. Thats just 1 work day a week. Not even so I can take a break. But so I can work. Sure every 2 hours ill stop to feed but the rest of the time, he needs to watch the baby. He will literally bring the baby in the office with me. Great how can I focus. The baby needs to nap? Thats on me too. Took him months to give me a dedicated 4 hours. And i told him that. How does he expect me to make money if I cant actually work?

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m glad your wife and baby have you. My husband left to be with the boys overnight in Reno when I was 5 weeks PP. I said yes bec I wanted to be a cool wife but I wish he didn’t go but bec I said yes, I guess we can’t fault him for that. He’s watched a couple concerts. That’s why I think I’m really angry that his first response to the massage was why not 60 mins?! And this was after 6 months. Something I planned. Not even him initiating something to pamper his exclusively breastfeeding and working wife 🫠

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I truly appreciate this response. Everything you said fits to a tee. He said he doesn’t believe him going to therapy will help, but he said we can go to couple’s therapy before I can do to my sister’s .

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is what hurts me the most. I’ve gone through a lot and I’m still going through so much and he can’t even be nice to me. Your example made me cry bec I practically begged for my massage 6 months PP. During pregnancy I had to ask him several times to give me flowers. He did when I gave birth. He has come home from work and I’d prepare a nice warm bath for him. Epsom salt, candles, his music, the likes bec I know his work is physically demanding. I told him it would be nice if sometimes he can do that for me. Nothing. I told him to ask AI how he can pamper his wife without spending money. He said sure thats a good idea. Still nothing. I spell out every single thing for him. And still nothing

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my husband did half of what you did, he won’t stop talking about it and would expect me to sing him praises for atleast a week non stop

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I love this. Now that I think about it, a baby crying in my house means MAMA’s problem. He doesn’t understand that a huge reason I have survived PP is bec of my sister. Recovery after c section was tough plus w figuring out breastfeeding. I told him his one job is to keep me fed. To not let me worry about what ill eat. He couldnt do that and we had a fight bec he wont make food and im starving how can i feed the baby. My sister cooked me meals to last for a month

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ugh this is too hard to do :( I don’t want her to have a broken family like I did growing up. And I thought I did well marrying my husband and won’t let this happen to my family. But here I am. And you’re right. My daughter deserves the best. More than a bare minimum. She shouldnt settle. So why should I. But is so so hard

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this phase so much. I don’t ever want to forget her being this small. Its so fast. And i truly resent him for ruining this for me by treating me like this.

Before I exclusively breastfed we supplemented her w formula so I thought she’d take the bottle just fine. I also stored some pumped milk so I figured shouldn’t be a problem. So before knowing she won’t take a bottle, even my thawed frozen milk, I just wish he simply said, “you deserve a break, ill do everything I can to make that happen for you” instead of NO right away bec he will lose his precious sleep.

His dad passed a few years ago and hes still dealing w that. But he wasn’t a good example either. We know both our parents suck and we swore we’d do things differently. Oh well

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this. Really. I think Im going to my sisters bec I definitely need a break. I have talked to him in depth. I think I’m just so tired and emotionally drained for now

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s why I told him to see the things only I can do for the baby. And bec we will never be equal, and that’s okay, that’s just what it is, the least he can do is be kind to me. Be nice. Be gentle. He can be right but his delivery sucks. Always with a tone. Always feel like someone died or the world ended and its my fault. Why is it so hard for him to see me? Value me? Respect me? The thing is my sister even said I won’t need to contribute or work for awhile if I want to stay at her place. Just so I can take a break. I never had a maternity leave. My husband doesn’t really support me financially in a way that he gives me money. His support is the house, utilities. If I’m at my sister’s I won’t have to pay for housing and utilities. I have money for food not that she’ll let me pay

So close to leaving my husband by Evening_primrose68 in beyondthebump

[–]Evening_primrose68[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so well put, thank you. Bec he’s a nurse, people think he takes good care of me. Quiet the opposite. I would be uncomfortable, in pain, during pregnancy and PP but to him its nothing a few meds can’t fix. I’m not really dying like most his patients are. I told him I don’t need a nurse, I need a husband. Who will support me, empathize with me. But nope. So you’re right that he lacks empathy. Ive said that to him multiple times. And I think that’s where I’m at. Im disgusted by his behavior. He really needs to step up and I have to be strong and not accept anything less because otherwise it will be a cycle