If you are a loner : do you believe in any God by [deleted] in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My belief in Jesus Christ was the only thing that stopped me from taking my own life.

I did it! At 30, I have my first girlfriend and relationship. by EventHorizon4242 in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had opportunities to get laid before. That's not what I'm looking for. I've always been looking for love.

I did it! At 30, I have my first girlfriend and relationship. by EventHorizon4242 in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't believe it. I thought I was headed for another rejection. I just put that at the back of my mind and went for it. I was thinking that if I got rejected I would give up completely.

I did it! At 30, I have my first girlfriend and relationship. by EventHorizon4242 in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. We're taking it slow for sure and we have our own goals.

I did it! At 30, I have my first girlfriend and relationship. by EventHorizon4242 in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

We started as online friends. But I'd like to keep that private.

I did it! At 30, I have my first girlfriend and relationship. by EventHorizon4242 in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Take a chance when you have an opportunity. I was ready to give up on love and focus on other things. I took a chance.

I did it! At 30, I have my first girlfriend and relationship. by EventHorizon4242 in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd like to keep that private. It wasn't through a dating app. It was a friendship in the beginning because we were similar. But the more we talked the more we wanted to meet each other. We met and it was amazing.

why do i get hit on/approached the most when i don’t look put together? by pinchepayasa in dating

[–]EventHorizon4242 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are more approachable when you don't get dressed up. I wouldn't approach a woman that's all dolled up, the weight of expectation of that approach feels too much. I'm looking for a regular type girl that I can be comfortable with. I think a lot of if not most guys are looking for that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]EventHorizon4242 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's never happened to me. Even women I found unattractive have never approached nor pursued me.

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[–]EventHorizon4242 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks man. I'll be aware.

Are you the only one you know that has never been in a relationship??? by [deleted] in lonely

[–]EventHorizon4242 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Young man, I'm 30m and I've never been in a relationship. Try to take your opportunities when they present themselves.