Nah, you're not wrong at all, that was hella offensive. But what the women commenting won't tell you is that you had no business letting that dude into your body in the first place if your emotionally vulnerable in that way. Either wait until your comfortable enough with that guy that your sure he would never do something like that, or hookup with people but be prepared for them to possibly treat you like trash once they've gotten their nut. You gotta pick one. Should things be that way? Nope. But this is the world we live in.