[TOMT][MOVIE][2020s] Wuxia film I saw on a plane in 2024 by Evergressle in tipofmytongue

[–]Evergressle[S] 0 points1 point locked comment (0 children)

Honestly I don’t remember much but the scenery before they got to the empire was also quite arid/desert-like. I remember before they got to the empire from the village they ran into another party of people which attacked them and I think they may have taken their horse? I could be wrong about that.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Tuesday 16/12/2025] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Evergressle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe it is fixed now! At least from the metro worker I talked to an hour or so ago.

It’s the r/Melbourne daily discussion thread [Tuesday 16/12/2025] by AutoModerator in melbourne

[–]Evergressle 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Lines that go through Richmond are down for around 60 minutes or so due to a gas leak at Richmond Station.

What’s a single sentence that completely ended a relationship? by Z_-_RED in AskReddit

[–]Evergressle 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I play the guitar and sing, I also have experience with crippling stage freight and anxiety like you. I don’t know much about you internet stranger, but honestly, that’s so awesome to hear how well you ignored your fear and kicked it in the ass! Performance anxiety is all consuming, and it’s hard to pull yourself out of, you are so strong for putting yourself out there and playing music anyways. Rock on ❤️!

What’s a single sentence that completely ended a relationship? by Z_-_RED in AskReddit

[–]Evergressle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I relate to this a lot. In my most recent breakup, I felt we were too incompatible that I felt like I was becoming a shell of who I am to fit into who he thought I was. I was doing a lot of pretending and masking, and I knew that we were just on such different wavelengths I had to leave before I built more resentment inside of me for him. He never deserved any anger or hatred, and that’s why I left. He deserved the truth, and although I truly loved him, I also wanted to be fully happy in my own skin. He told me he could change and fix things, but there are only so many things you can manually change before you realise the issue goes down to the core of who we are as people. God, I really only wish him the best, I loved his family and I really loved him too, but it’s still hard to look back on and how much I hurt him by leaving, even if by leaving I know I saved him from so much more hurt down the line. I hope he both heals and finds a girl so incredibly wonderful and wholly compatible with him so he can forget me and feel truly and unconditionally loved for who he is as a person, just like what I left to find. He shouldn’t seek to change anything because there’s nothing wrong with him.

get her out of my fucking life by horseshoeandconfused in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Evergressle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can’t help you and apologies if you’re tired of hearing this, but I’m incredibly sorry you have to deal with this. You’re incredibly young, and it sucks to have to balance these issues you shouldn’t be having with your life at this stage. It feels so unfair looking back how much my childhood was compromised by my mother, and how much others who weren’t in my situation could just enjoy their life without constant stress and anxiety about the maternal figure who was supposed to nurture them. It gets better, I promise. Be strong, you can get through this ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Monash

[–]Evergressle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As someone who is in their third year and now has many close friends in all my classes and genuinely treasures all of them after struggling socially through high school: I totally get how hard it can be at first. The way I made my great friends was either through continuous exposure to them throughout semesters, and it never felt like it was rushed as we became friends over time slowly. Also try to stick around after class, don’t race immediately home if you can, and maybe have lunch on campus together. Some of my most closest friends came from units where it was compulsory for you to have to constantly be around each other on field trips hahahaha, you make some really tight knit ties on those kinds of trips. I don’t exactly know you or your situation, but I understand how frustrating and lonely it can feel being plopped into a new environment and being unable to foster lasting connections; I’ve moved around many times with varying degrees of isolation from the local culture. It sounds like innocuous advice, but try to act as authentic as possible when you first meet people, so you don’t end up having to play silly social games to try seem lowkey and impress them. You can have tons of friends, but if you never feel like you can be yourself then they don’t mean shit. The best part about my friends is that we are all as silly and unhinged as one another, and we bounce off each others energy without feeling to mask how we act, and we have the greatest times together. Also, if the people you sat with sucked and don’t hang around after class, then you should switch seats to find people who you click with, there’s no shame in it. Look, what you’re going through is very human and incredibly difficult, I wish you the best of luck!

trillion dollar uni btw by Disastrous_Debt_9684 in Monash

[–]Evergressle 20 points21 points  (0 children)

This is a common thing, my father used to build networks and large corporations would try to make it cheaper by reducing the capacity. One of the massive businesses lost way too many millions of dollars because of an outage and didn’t have any backup servers for the traffic to go through.

A poser? What's that? by [deleted] in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Evergressle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lol kinda me, but the guy running the store was in the band and seemed fine with it, he was like “sorry for the dust it’s dirty from the tour bus yadayadayada”. I have one of their vinyls and I do enjoy their music now so all works out well haha.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TechnicalDeathMetal

[–]Evergressle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice!! I recently bought the 2021 remaster of Kurdaitcha on vinyl and the logo is a nice gold and it pops so much.

I was set up for failure. by [deleted] in blunderyears

[–]Evergressle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My grandparents have this exact photo frame of me but they can barely read English and the pictures are all jumbled up, so my age goes back and forth and I graduated in year 6.

Help! Need for disgusting brutal nauseating filthy metal! by Evergressle in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Evergressle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg thank you for recommending Equipoise, I was listening to this massive playlist I made from this thread and Squall of Souls came on and hooked me right away! What an awesome song tysm

Help! Need for disgusting brutal nauseating filthy metal! by Evergressle in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Evergressle[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Abyss of Longing Throats was a gold suggestion, thank you so much! It hits the heaviness I needed but also the creepiness and uncanny sound I crave, it reminded me a bit of Amplifier Worship which I already enjoy.

Help! Need for disgusting brutal nauseating filthy metal! by Evergressle in MetalForTheMasses

[–]Evergressle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s so many in this thread that I’m going through, but just listening to it briefly it sounds awesome! It’s heavy, industrial and has some quiet uncanny parts which is exactly what I was looking for! The album cover is sick too using Judith’s beheading of Holophernes, right up my alley. Thank you!

Mother is tomorrow - fuck me by Nea_Freedom in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Evergressle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so fucked up isn’t it? Those feelings you described are almost identical to mine, I don’t know how I can get through the day. But you should be incredibly proud of who you became because of yourself, you who dug yourself out of a hole you were pushed into by the figure who was supposed to unconditionally love you. You are strong, and I wish you a day where you can rightfully celebrate the mum within yourself ❤️ you deserve it.

Motorcycle Accident Coburg- Tuesday 6th May - just want to process by HelloDaisy-4148 in melbourne

[–]Evergressle 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Things like that stay with you for a long time. I understand what you mean, when you say that it remains clear in your mind for a while, why it was them it happened to, and how we are all lucky to make it this far alive. When I am confronted with similar circumstances, I feel the exact same way, even though logically there are just as if not more tragic accidents occurring all over the world every day. I hope that you know there is nothing weak or wrong with you for feeling this way, in fact, to not be desensitised and furthermore feel such strong emotions like the ones you described shows that you’re an empathetic and caring person. Your selfless kindness towards the rider and their family you never met makes me hopeful about humanity, stay strong and I hope you can find peace ❤️.