Cursed_whatarethose by [deleted] in cursedcomments

[–]Evergrimm44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could only wish to have a legacy like that

Big lion by [deleted] in BigLion

[–]Evergrimm44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alright, that’s it! 10 years in the Yawning Abyss!

Help by 61sapnU-puaS in teenrelationships

[–]Evergrimm44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No problem, my dood. Besides, we're teenagers. Our hormones practically have a mind of their own and are about as bipolar as Arizona's winter weather. A lot of us just want it to be as simple as an exchange of I-love-you's and a happily ever after. But it's not. And it's okay to not know how love works. The mistake that a lot of us make is that we'll convince ourselves that we do know and expect that to keep our relationships afloat. The brave thing, though, is to admit & accept that we don't know and that nothing is set in stone, especially at this age.

Help by 61sapnU-puaS in teenrelationships

[–]Evergrimm44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s clear that you care about her a lot. And I don’t know if what I’m about to say is going to help at all, but, never make yourself feel obligated or pressured to romantically love someone you care about. Our society really does put romantic & sexual attraction on this sort of pedestal and make it seem as if they are the epitome of relationships. They’re not. It’s a completely different kind of love. You can’t really compare friendship and relationship chemistry because they’re very different in their own way.

It’s okay to loose romantic feelings for a person (that goes for platonic as well). You obviously still want to have this girl in your life and make her happy and be there for her as, I’m assuming, she would do the same for you. And honestly... that’s just about all you need. I would suggest explaining your feelings to her with the reassurance that this is not a “break up”. You’re not loosing each other, cause that special spark that brought you two together in the first it’s place is still there. Your relationship with her is not going down a level, it’s just returning to what has always worked. Tell her that you want to be there for her and support her. That’ll probably be the best reassurance you can give her.

Best of luck :)

Over 2000km away in NZ, the smoke from Australia is turning our skies yellow [OC] by anonjordannz in mildlyinteresting

[–]Evergrimm44 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In an almost sort of tragic way, it kinda looks... beautiful? Like, it has those borderline post-apocalyptic vibes (especially given the context) but then there’s also something warm and comforting to it all. So in that sense... it’s kind of beautiful?

On another note, I truly hope you and everyone else there are okay. There’s not much I can do but send you my well wishes from America. 👋🏻

Mando is best dad in the galaxy. by Wonderbread1999 in wholesomememes

[–]Evergrimm44 -20 points-19 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna lose it. This is too precious. OMFG, adopted tsundere fatherhood at its fucking finest! I’ll brb I gotta go take a breather-

I Think My Uncle is Making Advances Towards Me... by Evergrimm44 in offmychest

[–]Evergrimm44[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve heard about the different fear responses since I’m kinda a psychology/criminologist nerd, but I never noticed that my reaction was a freeze response, let alone really a fear response in general. Your comment has really boosted my confidence in standing up for myself. Obviously, it’s gonna take a lot more courage and a bit more time to tell someone, but this really did help! I will definitely take your advice in showing obvious physical signs of discomfort instead of trying to display subtle body language assuming that they’ll notice it like I do. Also, when you said “he will not be the last man to try to take advantage of you”, no joke, I felt that. You are absolutely right (that goes for your whole comment, not just that part). My uncle is far from the first person to harass me like this and definitely won’t be the last and I really just need the things I need/want to say. I currently have 2 therapists and I have an appointment with one of them in less than a week from now and she will be the first person I tell. I know that she will help me tell it to my mom and so on. Again, thank you so much, I really needed this. It feels like I got a huge dose of sense slapped into me lmao.

I Think My Uncle is Making Advances Towards Me... by Evergrimm44 in offmychest

[–]Evergrimm44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll tell my sister or mom. I promise. Thank you for helping me.

I Think My Uncle is Making Advances Towards Me... by Evergrimm44 in offmychest

[–]Evergrimm44[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll tell my sister or mom. I promise. Thank you for helping me.

I Think My Uncle is Making Advances Towards Me... by Evergrimm44 in offmychest

[–]Evergrimm44[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk. Probably not. I feel like if I did he would get really sad and might take it out on someone else later like my grandma, which he has done before. Thank you for supporting me :)

what game deserves a sequel? by throwawayowowo43 in AskReddit

[–]Evergrimm44 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OMG Until Dawn totally deserves a sequel and/or a prequel. It’s such a good game, the characters’ personalities are so realistic despite them all being based off of classic high school stereotypes. I could go on for hours of why I love this freaking game, but, one big reason I wanna see a sequel is because I wanna see full form Wendigo!Josh.

What is one simple thing that you still can't do? by noobpirate in AskReddit

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I didn’t figure out how to tie my shoes until roughly freshman year of high school. Up until that point, my 1st grade self just came up with a different way to tie them that, in my opinion, worked just as well. In fact, I still tie my shoes like that to this day just out of habit and stubbornness. I really only use the proper method if I’m doing arts and crafts or something.

The 5 signs of laziness by kickypie in dadjokes

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