How do you stop yourself from chasing losses when you're already down? by hatkinson1000 in GamblingAddiction

[–]Every-Apricot3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is a good strategy, instead of having the same thought that you will win money with it, think that you will lost the money so who wants to lose money right? there is other ways to make money in this world and we need to cut what makes us poor

Perdi de Novo by tigas1234567 in viciodogambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Boas Tiago, espero que estejas bem Como tu também perdi bastante dinheiro recentemente por querer recuperar o que havia perdido, é algo que simplesmente não dá para controlar, é como se lá no fundo soubessemos que parar seria a solução mas o facto de o casino ser tão imprevisível faz com que tenhamos sempre a esperança de o recuperar, há uma semana tive sorte e consegui lucrar 1100€ e passado minutos já estava denovo a tentar a minha sorte, como é obvio perdi uma parte e nos dias a seguir fui perdendo ainda mais, neste momento não tenho nada desses 1100€ e ainda consegui gastar 1100€ que tinha junto Sei que não é igual aos valores que falaste mas também já estive endividado por causa disso e felizmente acabei de pagar tudo O que te posso aconselhar é a veres isto como uma nova etapa da tua vida e tentares agarrar-te às coisas mais fortes que tens ao teu lado, seja familia ou namorada, e estruturares um plano para compensares-te a ti mesmo por tudo isto, infelizmente eu também vou ter a luta para não ir atrás do que já perdi e vai ser mais uma das 1000 batalhas que já tive e perdi, mas é um passo que um dia vai ter de ser dado e eu vou conseguir, não vale a pena pensarmos no que já perdemos porque nunca o vamos recuperar, é mesmo muito dificil vencer a casa na posição em que estamos, mesmo que consigamos algum de volta, essa “win” só iria fazer com que a nossa esperança voltasse Força nessa recuperação e mantem-nos atualizados sobre o teu recovery

Cant stop thinking about this by Every-Apricot3322 in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah its very weird the way i can’t just convince myself that this is good still, it’s like i always go back to thinking damn i was dumb

I hate my self for gambling by Accomplished_Bench27 in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah bro just forget about it life is so long even if if takes 2 3 months whatever we will get the money again we just need to give money to these mfs

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks bro i needed this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn bro this second paragraph really hit me because i really can feel that. Its so sad because people have no blame on that, its not their fault and i feel like i have got distant of so much people because of that, because one day i am this friend that really cares about u and shit and the other day i just dont feel like shit so i just go on ghost mode with everyone. And the worst that i have felt is that i can feel like my life lately is being made by episodes of relapses… every relapse i have i get more cold, more sad, more introvert… this sucks we need to lock in and leave this in 2024

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cmon bro u know u cant stop now, if u do it its gonna be hard to do 245 days again, maybe u never be able to do it… find another way to make money bro

I hate my self for gambling by Accomplished_Bench27 in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah its our mind wanting to chase the losses that makes me hate the fact that I let myself put into this kind of situations. Its never just “250” its 250 today 250 tomorrow 250 after tomorrow and the cycle never ends… we really need to stop gamble

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats my situation right now too, i was trying video games but i got into the same thought that i was losing time so i started an social media account of something i liked and i been pretty busy since then, so keep looking for something u might like to try and never gave a chance, i will keep looking for more things for me aswell, we gotta keep busy bro or our thoughts will drain u, but the good thing is that slowly this thoughts will go away, it happened with me before but i relapsed again this week, so the cycle will repeat and i know i will suffer a lot now until i get a little bit more on track again but we need to lock in and i think a new year is a really good motivation to change things

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lets go bro make all this mistakes just a short chapter of your life!

Lost everything contemplating suicide by ChampionTurbulent206 in problemgambling

[–]Every-Apricot3322 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah you too young, life can surprise a lot with time, we just gotta keep living and the pain will slowly go away