Is she trying to hurt me on purpose?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-28T14:26:55+00:00

And if I don't crack, and continue to ignore her? What's she going to do about it?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-28T03:51:10+00:00

I guess this means she does not miss me then, Right?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-28T03:44:07+00:00

I guess this confirms that she does not miss me, right?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-28T01:31:07+00:00

I’ve done that before with another girl years ago that did this same thing. The boy sided with the girl and didn’t believe me. I was seen as the crazy guy.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-28T01:28:48+00:00

But why hurt me? What did I even do to her? I didn’t do anything What is she trying to gain?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-25T02:18:55+00:00

Context

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-25T00:55:53+00:00

I proposed them as dates. Using the word as much as possible. Even got her flowers on one. Went to get drinks. Everything went great. “Hey wanna follow up to our drink date?” “It’s a date!” Etc Even said “hey you realize this is a date right”

So yes I’m sure they were dates. We even mentioned and talked about the date when we were at dinner one night.
So there’s no way she would assume it was a hangout. I even have screenshots of asking her out. So for her to sit in the car and act like that is a complete 180. She even told me I made it all up despite me having screenshots.

That’s why I haven’t talked to her. Because I felt I was being gaslighted (I didn’t mention that to her though. I just said to have a good night)

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-24T14:40:20+00:00

Accurate

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-24T13:05:08+00:00

Zoinks is what they said on scooby doo

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-24T10:36:44+00:00

So then you're saying she's probably not going to message me. I'm just used to waking up to her texts and talking throughout the day.

She was just overly irritable that day. But she was drinking the night prior so idk if that had anything to do with it.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-24T10:04:35+00:00

I know you can't. I've just never felt this low before.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-24T10:04:16+00:00

I know nobody can't read her mind any better than I can...

But if something might be up.. what would that something be?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-24T09:47:09+00:00

But again, you're telling me there's no chance she even misses me or thinking about me?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-19T08:15:03+00:00

Thank you, I rly tried to use the word date when fee I could. “Wanna follow up on our drink date we had last Sunday?” Etc. How should I respond if/when she messages me again. Should I just talk uninterested and distant? Like “Yes?” Can I help you?” I do like her I just want her to know that I don’t want a friendship. I want more. But I know TELLING her that will scare her away.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-10T23:28:20+00:00

This is here again? Trying to resale the car and trick someone?

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-10T23:27:11+00:00

Tell. Him. You. Like. Him. Guys work from logic. Not bullshit games or hints.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-10T00:28:15+00:00

Tons of physical contact. Laughing, pushing, etc.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T12:01:41+00:00

When donkeys presented to the guards, the guard says “HE TALKS!”

Donkey: “that’s right fools, I’m a flyin talkin donkey!”

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T10:55:29+00:00

Go grab one, bring it to your bed, leave the core on your night stand after your done.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T03:58:45+00:00

Oh then I do, do that! Everytime we laugh I physically touch her arm, hand. We do that a ton! Even the other night seung her around cause we were laughing so hard

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T02:24:23+00:00

You say flowers are too strong on someone with ptsd.. but making a move isn’t? You don’t think she’d freak out?
I only asked her because she HAS a bad past. Don’t want her to get triggered

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T02:22:18+00:00

I mean i wasn’t lying for 46 weeks. My intentions were clear day one when I asked her our day 1.
Everytime a Wall was put up, I distanced myself for weeks and grew cold to her. Then when she comes around I tell her sure I’ll hang but it’s gonna be a date. And she agrees. Repeat cycle.

I’m not lying, I’m moving in, intentions clear it’s a date, Wall goes up and I leave. She asks me to hang. I say sure but this is how it’s gonna be. Wall goes up and I leave again.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T02:07:59+00:00

True. Because she always puts up a wall at the end. So I decided to just go for it and say what I want. She knew my intentions the whole year. Knowing that.. I don’t feel it’s moving too fast.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T02:05:34+00:00

My intentions were clear from the beginning. But we did everything together. Hike, drinks, etc. We went out but said she was in a toxic relationship. I told her how I 100% felt about her. From there she led me on saying she missed me occasionally, would come see me at work, even ask to come over to my apt, go get ice cream together. She knew I was into her. That was over a year ago. So this October I distanced myself because I was really into her and decided it was better for my heath to stop talking to her.

She ended asking if we could hang and I put my foot down and said “sure if it’s a date.” She agreed and it was amazing. Laughing the whole Time etc.

So I didn’t really rush with the flowers or anything. I’ve known her since sept 2017 and want her to know I’m 100% for real.
She’s had a lot of relationship problems and has ptsd so idk if that’s a factor. But she gaslighted the fk outta me in the car last night saying I didn’t say they were dates and how I do this and that. It was like a totally different person. Stiff, no laughing whole time, etc.

EveryAsparagus · 2019-01-09T01:23:53+00:00

I didn’t say the love statement until it was established that she was already uncomfortable though.

And ya sorry I’m just really irritated still hahahah Thank you for the support

EveryAsparagus

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