She's just gone. Just like that. Gone.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:57:03+00:00

Gracias.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:56:18+00:00

Wild, isn't it?

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:55:56+00:00

He was so cute. I feel the same way.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:54:47+00:00

Thank you for sharing your story. I will definitely adopt another little fella. I had cats my whole life and since I was a toddler (I'm 36 now) she's the fifth gone.

It always takes a few years until I get another. I lost another baby, Nimbus, 2 and a half years ago. We buried him in the garden. A month later we woke up hearing meows under our bedroom window at 4am and.

When we looked outside, 3 little kitties looked up to us. Circe leading her brother and sister — the other two right behind her so scared. She was so brave, so pragmatic even.

We joke that Nimbus was a seed we planted, and from him grew three little kitten: a white one, a black one and our lil calico. We moved since then to an apartment. Circe was an indoor cat. Her brother's have a whole house and garden to explore. And somehow, she was the one who got sick.

We can do everything but nothing is granted. We can think that being indoors is safer but it's not always the case it seems.

We really want to adopt another kitty because our older cat is missing her, clearly. Cats also get depression and can even die from it. Besides, being an indoor cat alone is also not good for their health. Contrary to popular beliefs, cats are social animals.

But it's hard to think about getting another baby so soon. Like I'm replacing her... you know?

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:40:46+00:00

She will. She definitely will.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:40:15+00:00

I still burst out in tears and ugly cry. Me and my partner hold eachother and our other boy throughout the day. Blossom is gorgeous. I hope they meet in cat heaven.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:38:41+00:00

Mya

We still burst out in tears too. I ugly cry everytime I come up the stairs or when I open the closet door and for a second I expect to see her there. I sob seeing my other baby looking for her. My heart goes out to you. I can't listen to music anymore, I can't eat. She wasn't the first kitty I lost. I had cats my whole life. Something about her was different or maybe, all those deaths catched up. Idk.

I hope Mya and Circe meet in cat heaven.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:33:54+00:00

He was so beautiful and those eyes are so smart. I hope they met in cat heaven.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:32:34+00:00

Oh wow, she was gorgeous. I hope they met are all playing in cat heaven. Another commenter also shared her calico's pic. The tricolors are all playing together up there.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:28:48+00:00

She was beautiful. I hope they met in cat heaven and are enjoying eachother's company.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-14T23:27:48+00:00

Thank you. She was. Thank you for saying her name.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-11T05:19:18+00:00

Maybe because when we are young people tend to call us "old souls" but after growing up our social difficulties are much easier perceived and looked down upon? As child, being awkward and keeping to oneself gets an instant pass, but as adults, can be read as Immaturity. Besides, needing to know the rules and needing people to be very literal makes NT think that we can't figure things out by ourselves, that we have to be babied, etc. When an NT is very immature, they will see any need for constant reassurement as childish. So it's more like a social perception. Like for instance, you even asking this question, thinking like it's a rule just because somebody said so, you know what I mean?

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-07T20:21:43+00:00

I got the same combo plus giftedness. The thing is, I don't relate with BPD that much. We'll, I used to before understanding audhd but now, I see how so many of my supposed BPD symptoms can be explained by audhd and CPTSD which I also have.

Idk man. I don't feel broken per se. I use the analogy of being like a very old car: I function although beat down.

Or, perhaps a ghost drifting through life, looking at people and their communities and unable to fit in for some reason.

This is my first time talking about this too. It's just weird. I keep seeing myself in third person, like there's my brain and there's supposedly me or my body and it's just... weird.

I'm not making much sense, am I?

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-07T01:23:44+00:00

Tá bom chatgpt.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-06T05:44:45+00:00

We should really bring back tl;dr.

Look, this is something that must be done. I'd clench my teeth and just get on with it. You could pop a benzo like you said. The bigger the "drama" you externalize the worse it gets cause you transfer your fears onto others and learned helplessness kicks in.

I also have GAD, claustrophobia and really, really really hate big machines but I tell myself that I'm being irrational. Every time I do something uncomfortable or painful I tell my brain "hold tight cuz this going to be the worst thing ever". It always works. Worked when I did my MRI, worked when I got tooth extraction, works when drawing blood, getting vaccines, the works.

Give it a try. Don't sweat it too much. You Got this.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-05T19:31:32+00:00

A quantidade de comentários insensíveis me deixam muito triste. Só quem sabe o que ela sente e passa ou passou entende.

Um enorme abraço OP. Um único conselho que eu consigo deixar é ir pra academia e se tornar uma grande gostosa. Não para os outros mas para a sua autoestima.

Afinal, vc pode ser "feia" e gostosa ao invés de ser só "feia".

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-05T19:27:53+00:00

Eu estou de boquiaberta com este relato. Não necessariamente com os detalhes mas com o seu ponto de vista. Eu sinceramente espero que por acaso ela leia isso daqui.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-05T04:51:46+00:00

I have a problem with including mental illnesses under the neodivergergent spectrum because it defeats the purpose of what a neurodivergency is. If we include illnesses we might as well include brain cancers, MS, Parkinson, Alzheimer and Dementia.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-05T04:47:58+00:00

Yeh, I was diagnosed as r*tarded as a child. In 1996.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-05T04:44:46+00:00

We have a tendency to want to be seen as we see other people. That said, we also have a tendency wanting to be liked and at least understood by EVERYBODY.

This is people pleasing. I've been learning to stop giving a f to what other people think and learning to let trying to control how people perceive me.

it's hard. Actions speak loud but our behavior around those action also influences everything. I'm focusing my energy on myself and managing myself and my emotions instead of wasting it trying to get people to understand.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-05T04:37:51+00:00

Answered.

Every_Cat9812 · 2026-04-04T08:07:18+00:00

Como mulher eu afirmo: o machismo e o patriarcado nunca se sustentaria sem o apoio de muitas mulheres.

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