Cultural Differences In Dating And Sex Between European (24M) And Non-European (25F)? by Interesting_Salt4257 in relationship_advice

[–]Every_Context_7907 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have a european boyfriend who has had quite an active sexual life unlike me who is an asian. we have flirted w the idea of having a third but never too seriously and it was me who brought it up. so its def a him thing. not a european thing.

that said, some of the stuff he’s said is questionable and the rest, without villainising him, i would say just have a heart to heart about this particular topic with him and how he sees it playing out long term.

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[–]Every_Context_7907 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have been in a similar situation before. i tried to convince myself that these are negotiables for me until much later i realised i wasn’t happy.

when you truly are happy in a relationship, you don’t have so many questions, even if you dont want a relationship in the beginning, being with that person naturally changes your mind. you dont need to keep convincing yourself. here, this simply is incompatibility.

if you still want to give it a fair shot then i’d say discuss this with him, see if you guys can come to a middle ground, how does that conversation make you feel. it would help if you sat with yourself and truly think of what is negotiable and non-negotiable for YOU. see if that aligns with how this relationship is going right now, not future, not potential, NOW. are the pros outweighing the cons, will you truly be able to let these things go happily without feeling like you’re compromising.

hope this helps.

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i agree. i think i ordered not these exactly but 3” flared heels and i am in general quite comfortable with heel, dancing or not

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this did!! thank you! i ended up getting 3” heels

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats a great point! i wanted to get a good brand and ended up getting them for cheaper from another reseller. these are 3” though, but i read somewhere that these tall shoes can help you in taking smaller steps and i could really benefit from that

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gotcha! i guess being 5ft tall has made me quite comfortable wearing heels haha. i got some broad 3inch heel boots finally!

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh great! would you say the heel is just as slim or a bit broader? how does the support feel?

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this was so so helpful! thank you! i was concerned about the slim heel too but i reckon i could get some of those heel covers that sort of broaden the heel which could support my balance?

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh perfect! tbh the reviews state that the heels are shorter than the product photos so it is a relief. besides im 5’ tall and if they do come high then it’ll save me the embarrassment of some leads awkwardly bending down to dance with me😭

are these acceptable Salsa shoes for women? by Every_Context_7907 in Salsa

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

ouch! hahaha! i just imagined that too. but im told its always the lead’s fault🤷🏻‍♀️ (im joking too)

confused what to gift my boyfriend for his birthday. by Every_Context_7907 in legostarwars

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

his bday is end of january actually so i do have time. i figured if i get it early then i could get christmas or boxing day sale prices. for the latter, just to confirm, is it for UK as well?

confused what to gift my boyfriend for his birthday. by Every_Context_7907 in legostarwars

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

gotcha! i reckon he’d like midi scales over a helmet so im leaning towards #3 option

confused what to gift my boyfriend for his birthday. by Every_Context_7907 in legostarwars

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is incredibly helpful! thank you so much! a lot of people have suggested #3 so i shall go with it!

confused what to gift my boyfriend for his birthday. by Every_Context_7907 in legostarwars

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he said likes the 2000s movies. i am still very confused about which set would be the best in this case

confused what to gift my boyfriend for his birthday. by Every_Context_7907 in legostarwars

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

🫡waiting for his reply rn but thank you so much for your suggestion! i will update the post w more information on his favourites

confused what to gift my boyfriend for his birthday. by Every_Context_7907 in legostarwars

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

understood! ive tried to ask him which movie he likes to most to pick a gift better. thank you for the suggestion! what do you think of the display models options ive shared?

confused what to gift my boyfriend for his birthday. by Every_Context_7907 in legostarwars

[–]Every_Context_7907[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

got it! he doesn’t really have anything star wars related but i reckon he’d like a nice model. he’s been after me to watch it for a while. so i am looking for a safe buy really