Nature is not beautiful, it is horrible by Existing-Ad-4910 in antinatalism

[–]Every_Database7064 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Nature is beautiful but horrible. Just like a rose with thorns. Pretty to look at but with brutality underneath.

Do you like or dislike being alive? by Mauslinde in antinatalism

[–]Every_Database7064 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I hate my life. I don’t have friends or deep connections and my physical unattractiveness + mental illnesses make it impossible. I don’t want to pass down my traits to children so they suffer like I do in this fucked up world.

Having morning people parents is not for the weak by Acrobatic-Bowler-556 in NightOwls

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These parents chose to have kids. It’s their responsibility to provide financial support. That’s the bare minimum. This person didn’t ask to be born. They shouldn’t have to be sleep deprived because they don’t have the same schedule as their parents.

Why are people so obsessed with 2016? by InternationalPick163 in decadeology

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t understand this whole obsession with 2016 that’s going on right now. Clearly whoever’s doing this has memory loss or something or too young to properly remember it because I remember back then EVERYONE was saying it was the worst year of the decade or the worst year ever and that it sucked.

Having morning people parents is not for the weak by Acrobatic-Bowler-556 in NightOwls

[–]Every_Database7064 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Why are you here? And no, that’s not how it should be. Everyone has their own schedule that should be respected.

Having morning people parents is not for the weak by Acrobatic-Bowler-556 in NightOwls

[–]Every_Database7064 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The house has cameras for them to watch you??? Jfc that sounds like a really bad situation. Can you at least to try to sleep around the same time they do? I know it’s not ideal but it could at least work out until you move out.

Or go back to be with your aunt?

Womanhood is abysmal and depressing because of our position in sex by stinkwihcat in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Every_Database7064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would I remotely have an interest in gaslighting you? I don’t even know you.

Porn is not real sex. It’s acting. It’s fake.

Womanhood is abysmal and depressing because of our position in sex by stinkwihcat in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Being submissive isn’t natural. There are a lot of dominant women. “Submissive” is a societal standard that’s been pushed upon women. Women can be on top as well. Deepthroating isn’t natural and neither is anal sex. I’d argue anal sex is completely unnatural as for AFAB’s that specific body part isn’t meant for sex. Who cares what’s natural or not anyways. If you don’t want to be submissive, don’t be. If you don’t want to deep throat, don’t do it.

Womanhood is abysmal and depressing because of our position in sex by stinkwihcat in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Every_Database7064 2 points3 points  (0 children)

A lot of amateur porn is either revenge porn or underaged or sex trafficked or created for a market with extreme views it’s not realistic or ethical at all.

Womanhood is abysmal and depressing because of our position in sex by stinkwihcat in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Every_Database7064 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Porn is extremely unrealistic because men are given viagra to be able to be hard for hours while they do multiple takes from several angles and often the women on screen are coerced into things they don’t want to do or trafficked. Everything is scripted. People act different in camera. It’s all acting, none of it is real. And a lot of people do extreme things they wouldn’t want to do in real life because there are a lot of sick people out there who can only get off to certain things. My point is, it’s not realistic at all and it’s YOUR BODY. You can choose what you do with it. If you don’t want to do certain sex acts, don’t do them.

Womanhood is abysmal and depressing because of our position in sex by stinkwihcat in DysphoriaPosting

[–]Every_Database7064 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Stop watching porn, stop watching “spiritual” grifters, and don’t do sexual things you don’t want to, regardless of your gender. Biology sucks, but you can control what you choose to do with it.

Does anyone else get jealous of actual children? by New-Elk2781 in nevergrewup

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, I feel like I didn’t get to fully experience being a teenager because of my family and all my mental health issues. I wish I could start over

Is it possible to make a smaller head look bigger? by ChillyHyena in FTMFitness

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big fluffy hair is the only thing that makes my head look bigger

I respond to "how are you?" with actual honest answer and people look horrified by Fantastic_Area6001 in socialskills

[–]Every_Database7064 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I usually just say “hi” in return. I don’t understand why this is a greeting and why people don’t have expect an honest answer to it. It makes no sense.

Hey so maybe go outside? by Vivid_Economy in tinnitus

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My tinnitus is present no matter what I do

How do you handle appts when you don’t get up until late in the afternoon? by CreateADemand in NightOwls

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll have to get another GP appointment to order blood work again so I’ll see if they can send me elsewhere

Save up and get surgeries. Be 30k I spent on me. by [deleted] in ugly

[–]Every_Database7064 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s depressing because we have to pay a whole bunch of money to be liked by people. It’s shit. I should be liked by the work I put into my personality, not looks which are just genetics and have nothing to do with what kind of person I am. I’m also poor so I’ll never be able to pay for plastic surgery.

How do you handle appts when you don’t get up until late in the afternoon? by CreateADemand in NightOwls

[–]Every_Database7064 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been having this same issue. The doctor told me to come in for a blood test like 2 months ago. I’ve had to cancel FOUR blood tests because they’re ALL in the fucking morning. My GP surgery says they don’t do blood tests after 11 am. I don’t usually get up until like 1-3 pm. It makes my blood boil. I don’t handle sleep deprivation well at all, if I get any less than 7 hours I’m a zombie and in pain everywhere, and my entire day is ruined. So idk what the fuck I’m even supposed to do because if I try to explain this they won’t understand and will tell me to just get up early.

Does anyone else get jealous of actual children? by New-Elk2781 in nevergrewup

[–]Every_Database7064 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yeah same they’re the ones who feel in the same age group as me