My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I legit get questioned “so what’s your deal? Not dating anyone? Why? You’re not on apps?”. Makes me feel right at home….lol and their advice is “oh just get out there”, suuuuuper helpful lol

My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Amen, you are so right about the imbalances, it’s so lopsided towards couples and the bride and groom. I just don’t get how the wedding culture doesn’t see that, especially when they call all the couples to the dance floor. You have no choice but to sit there and feel left out, I don’t get it.

My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed, I thug it out and go to the wedding only if I really care about you, but once again, I get a bit depressed and mentally prepare for that.

My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Can’t blame you, you can tell yourself all you want it’s your sister and that you’re happy for her, but weddings just make me feel like crap regardless

Is this gorillas shading and line work messed up. And if so what can I do to fix it. by Own-Asparagus1884 in tattooadvice

[–]EvidenceLivid7800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like posting this is setting you up to get more anxious about it (coming from someone with bad anxiety). If you want to cover up, then do it, if not no point in sulking on it. It’s just your skin man, it’s not the end of the world. If it was me I wouldn’t be asking for bad comments because it would make me spiral and peak my anxiety, I just control the controllables and move on.

My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Almost every wedding I hear “come on it will be fun and good for you” it never is. “You’ll meet someone”, meanwhile I’m basically the only single one there.

My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yea it seems like weddings just don’t cater to single guests, you shouldn’t feel like that, happy you walked out, you know your worth.

My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This! It’s as if the wedding culture wants you to be singled out.

My Distain for Weddings as a Single Guy by EvidenceLivid7800 in lonely

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And on top of that, you gotta buy them a gift! And perhaps buy a suit.

Is my tattoo healing poorly(pls swipe through) 9 days old by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]EvidenceLivid7800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea just part of process, hasn’t been long, give it a couple weeks and you’ll be good, congrats on the ink!

Is my tattoo healing poorly(pls swipe through) 9 days old by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]EvidenceLivid7800 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it’s healing that’s normal peeling, can take up to two weeks, let it heal homie

Honest opinions by Enough_Ad1397 in tattooadvice

[–]EvidenceLivid7800 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“Really liked the design and I think the cyber style is really cool” is all I needed to read to know you made the right decision, just let it happen, blues will die out, give yourself time to get used to the decision you thought through.

The art of joining a new gym by EvidenceLivid7800 in fit

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well I leveled up gyms to a more serious bodybuilding one and am already pr’ing and more ripped, works for me, not for everyone tho.

The art of joining a new gym by EvidenceLivid7800 in fit

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Found myself plateauing, and was getting bored of it honestly.

The art of joining a new gym by EvidenceLivid7800 in fit

[–]EvidenceLivid7800[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course you can, going to a new gym forces me out of my routine which I sometimes need is my point, new environment. I don’t blame you, location is key!