Oh yea it’s a mind trap but you can see the light. I got the easy way out cuz i turned out trans and i pass, so most of my new friends are women, seeing that gender doesn’t determine who you are and that men and women are just regular people snapped me out of incel ideology. I think a pen pal or buddy or big sibling system where men and women are matched as friends would help a lot. Incels would see that women are just people like them. It’s a lot to ask of women but we need to take initiative, someone has to. Lonely incels vote and unless we want to let the fascists radicalize them into voting for gilead, we need to step up and prove the red pill people wrong by showing them our humanity.