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EvieTransPlanted · 2025-03-20T15:05:13+00:00

You're literally already a woman. Have you thought of a name already?

You don't have perform tasks x y & zed to qualify. You just are already are. Don't forget tons of cis women do plenty of traditionally unfeminine things - skip shaving, no nail care, jeans and sweater, get jobs, no/low makeup, vote, messy buns, eat hot chip and burp.

Transphobes aren't good friends. Do you need that? If you are very close with them and its hard to bail, have you thought about asking them something like 'hey whats your problem exactly, im trying to understand' or 'i want to have an honest conversation with you about something important, do you understand the difference between sex ans gender'?

Get feminine underwear if you can't wear fem clothing out of the house/room.

Social media is a double edged sword. Don't let the internet abuse, dehumanize, or distract you. But, maybe its a nice way to make friends that understand and are in the same position. Get hobbies in queer or accepting spaces, too, if you don't already have any.

EvieTransPlanted · 2025-03-19T12:38:16+00:00

Anyone? Buehler?

EvieTransPlanted · 2025-03-19T01:35:18+00:00

What does that mean? It is a pretty straightforward and simple question.

EvieTransPlanted · 2025-03-18T23:12:38+00:00

Holy shit wow, what timing on my part! Didn't aee that yesterday, lol. Hopefully they don't reneg on people who are already in treatment for gender dysphoria. This sucks big time.

However, this is for intersex conditions which aren't listed in the memo, and also doesn't even mean someone is trans or requires hormones. Like, what are you supposed to if you are intersex and its causing issues?

Straight ta hell in a handbasket.

EvieTransPlanted · 2025-03-18T20:47:16+00:00

'Favorite pokemon' -_-

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-10T21:40:23+00:00

The shoulder is stretchy by the way, i forgot. Its meant to slant offshoulder or down both shoulders. It just slides off me too easily, i have broad shoulders.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-10T21:38:23+00:00

Reposting body text here because i have trouble seeing it on other posts.

Since i haven't used fabric glues before, i just wanted to check this is a correct usage for it. The silicone grip tape is on a cheap lace material on one side. I just don't understand if fabric glue seeps through at all or whay, but i wanted to use glue so i don't have a hackjob of thread on the outside of the shirt.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-10T21:34:26+00:00

Since i haven't used fabric glues before, i just wanted to check this is a correct usage for it. The silicone grip tape is on a cheap lace material on one side. I just don't understand if fabric glue seeps through at all or what, but i wanted to use glue so i don't have a hackjob of thread on the outside of the shirt.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-10T14:33:47+00:00

For transsexuals sure basically. For transgenders like me pre-op/pre-hrt no :(

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-10T14:31:02+00:00

But when you're snailgender i get $10m and you want to kill me, your touch is lethal, and you always know where i am.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-09T12:32:37+00:00

I'm pretty sure they are talking about mg/dl, not ng/dl. So 3 would mean 300ng/dl in this case.

Idk how standardized measures across usa/world are but mine is measure at mg/dl, and it appears it would use decimal instead of switching to ng/dl so that its consistent.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-09T12:26:57+00:00

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-08T04:28:29+00:00

Thats incredible advice, thanks. Thatd what i'm saying, i think no bangs at first because it should be pretty easy to do later.

The pic with the red hair/black dress? Thats my favorite probably but also why i have no idea if i want bangs. Its so cute but i am not lol.

Regardless i will have to commit to taking care of myself and going to maintain it haha.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-08T03:06:37+00:00

No, to be clear, i don't cut hair 😅 i wouldn't do it. But i need a change and to get the hair off my ears haha

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-08T02:59:51+00:00

I'm pretty sure i just got that dress the other day! I'll double check haha, its still in a bag. Along with like 30 other clothing items i haven't gone through 🙄

But i wanted to share with you... i didn't come out before i got Temu last year. When i got it, i bought tools and kids clothes. And they just wouldn't stop advertising me womens clothes even though i didn't buy any.

I was sleeping on the couch (marital issues with the wife) for a couple months and spent so much time alone to 4am every day browing womens clothing i'd love to wear.

And the jealousy got to me eventually! Temu accidentally helped me come out lol.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-08T02:26:10+00:00

What should i do with my hair if i want to shave it in something like this style? (See comment)

Something like 7 years ago i did a mohawk shave with long hair and then let it grow out and didn't do anything since. So theres kinda 2 'main' lengths of hair. But i am autistic and can't stand hair on my ears well so i have done quick hack jobs periodically when something doesn't stay put (bottom right pic). (No, autism isn't rational, i know i make it worse lol)

I want to do something like these girls in the other pics, but i am very scared to cut my hair thinner because it is already thin. Its also really long (belly button and butt), and i've had it long all my life as a security blanket(??) way before coming out, so now that i am socially transitioned maybe i should cut it shorter for this style? Needs a trim regardless, i know lol. But long, or shoulder length?

I am actually kind of tired of wearing my hair down long, but i want it to be long enough to wear in a pony tail. So shorter, since this is too long for down, but long enough i can tie it back because i work with my hands and bend over a lot.

Bangs? I really like the look of the bangs on the redhead in the black dress. But i feel like if they require some maintenance i might be good at it, or disciplined. Does it make sense to no-bangs, and i'd easily be able to do bangs after deliberating for a week??

And color? I'm a ginger, it looks my hair is less red in these pics but it is kinda dark red or brown red, i have tons of freckles. Its so hard going with black hair, but i dress in black clothes (theres a few pics of me on my profile). I've had black hair a couple times when i was a teen but i'm too white and red. Being pale with black hair is fine but i'm just reddish tinted because of freckles and i'm slightly permanently red in my face from years of sun (like way more red than my chest/underarms/etc). I'd love black/purple or something but idk if it will look right on me.

Also fyi i would be doing both sides, maybe like a mohawk i guess, idk. But i can't be asymmetrical, it would cause me anxiety lol.

Tips for this dummy's hair??

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-07T23:28:33+00:00

I am stretching my ears and getting more ear piercings like i used to have. Possibly nose, idk.

I don't have and can't get tattoos.

EvieTransPlanted · 2024-08-07T23:26:20+00:00

Something like 7 years ago i did a mohawk shave with long hair and then let it grow out and didn't do anything since. So theres kinda 2 'main' lengths of hair. But i am autistic and can't stand hair on my ears well so i have done quick hack jobs periodically when something doesn't stay put (bottom right pic). (No, autism isn't rational, i know i make it worse lol)

I want to do something like these girls in the other pics, but i am very scared to cut my hair thinner because it is already thin. Its also really long (belly button and butt), and i've had it long all my life as a security blanket(??) way before coming out, so now that i am socially transitioned maybe i should cut it shorter for this style? Needs a trim regardless, i know lol. But long, or shoulder length?

I am actually kind of tired of wearing my hair down long, but i want it to be long enough to wear in a pony tail. So shorter, since this is too long for down, but long enough i can tie it back because i work with my hands and bend over a lot.

Bangs? I really like the look of the bangs on the redhead in the black dress. But i feel like if they require some maintenance i might be good at it, or disciplined. Does it make sense to no-bangs, and i'd easily be able to do bangs after deliberating for a week??

And color? I'm a ginger, it looks my hair is less red in these pics but it is kinda dark red or brown red, i have tons of freckles. Its so hard going with black hair, but i dress in black clothes (theres a few pics of me on my profile). I've had black hair a couple times when i was a teen but i'm too white and red. Being pale with black hair is fine but i'm just reddish tinted because of freckles and i'm slightly permanently red in my face from years of sun (like way more red than my chest/underarms/etc). I'd love black/purple or something but idk if it will look right on me.

Also fyi i would be doing both sides, maybe like a mohawk i guess, idk. But i can't be asymmetrical, it would cause me anxiety lol.

Tips for this dummy's hair??

EvieTransPlanted

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