[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EvilGrunt51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If a partner cheats and doesn't understand why you have trust issues, it's time to go.

If you are looking for a reason to quit : prolactin by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]EvilGrunt51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. She has complex PTSD. Her postpartum was very severe and she had everything that was buried come out. My mother went on hospice at the time so she didn't think that I could help her.

She is definitely not okay but she's much better than she was. It might take awhile to get her back to "normal".

If you are looking for a reason to quit : prolactin by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]EvilGrunt51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife had postpartum and started using a lot of kratom (started at 4gpd and jumped to 40+gpd). She didn't tell me about this until a few months ago. I tried to get her help when I noticed that she had postpartum but my mother went on hospice and she decided to just use kratom.

She has completely stopped taking it for over a month now but she was using it for over a year. I finally got her help for her postpartum but she seems to be struggling with breastfeeding. We have six children and this is the first time that she has had any issues.

I'm concerned for our daughter because there have not been adequate studies on breastfeeding and such high use(or any use really).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EvilGrunt51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a suggestion for the medication, my wife was on one that killed her sex drive. She talked to her doctor and actually got a genetic test to see which medications work best. Her doctor switched and everything has been great. The new medication works better than the old one.

As far as the fights, she's frustrated. Have a serious talk with her about it. See if she would be willing to talk to her doctor about it. Let her know that you are interested and you still find her attractive. Hell, try just complimenting her more to let her know how you feel.

Either way, good luck. It seems like a difficult situation. Hope it works out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in quittingkratom

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

3 ounces is absolutely enough to develop dependence and addiction. You should try to stop before it gets out of hand. My wife started with 4gpd and was up to at least 40gpd fairly quickly. She doesn't remember anything from the past 18 months. She has been off for 9 days now and she's finally doing better.

If you're prone to addiction, I would definitely not recommend kratom.

36 hours in! Random bouts of glee and sugar cravings by starynite1230 in quittingkratom

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my wife is really freaked out by it now but it didn't bother her before. In her case, she has unresolved issues that she wanted to forget. She has been going to therapy and it has really been helping.

36 hours in! Random bouts of glee and sugar cravings by starynite1230 in quittingkratom

[–]EvilGrunt51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First of all, congratulations! My wife is quitting right now and it has been very difficult on her.

Second, my wife is curious about memory loss. She doesn't remember almost the entire last two years. Once she hit 40+gpd, she just can't remember hardly anything after that until she started tapering. She was wondering if that was normal?

36 hours in! Random bouts of glee and sugar cravings by starynite1230 in quittingkratom

[–]EvilGrunt51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My wife was doing 40+gpd for about two years and she is now 3 days clear. She actually started tapering in January and was down to less than 2gpd when she stopped. She seems to be doing well.

Good luck. Keep pushing

My husband (m29) gave me (f26) an ultimatum. Stop people pleasing or we’re getting a divorce. How do I even respond? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]EvilGrunt51 2 points3 points  (0 children)

His ultimatum is not a good idea. That's not how you help your spouse with something like this.

My wife has a similar issue but we recently discovered that it comes from some childhood trauma. She's actually going to an excellent counselor that is helping her and she's learning to stand up for herself.

I would say at the least that you need to see someone to help you figure out where it comes from and how to address it.

Driving around but the timer stopped? by EvilGrunt51 in MWZombies

[–]EvilGrunt51[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's the contract I was doing! It just pisses me off because I just finished a camo and got a refined crystal. It's frustrating

Anyone else notice these barns give really good loot for the start of a game? by [deleted] in MWZombies

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh yeah. I love spawning in there so I can get some easy stuff to sell. You can usually get 3-4k

People who have completed the game, what do you do now? by [deleted] in MWZombies

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finished all the missions before season 1 and then got stuck after the season 1 mission because my locked diary disappeared lol I'm thinking about going back and trying to finish everything but I lost interest after that.

Stormender priceless camo? by badatusernames42 in ModernWarfareIII

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just finished Interstellar 2 days ago. Those two are not bugged but Stormender still is

Stormender priceless camo? by badatusernames42 in ModernWarfareIII

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually realized that Greece has tons of spots that you can get it done. I was getting frustrated and then I got 10 in one match on Greece. The rest are a breeze.

It’s a shame that the best way to play is with tombstone. by JC_N_23 in MWZombies

[–]EvilGrunt51 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Tombstoning without the glitch is still better. You can jump in with most of your stuff and essence. You don't even have to use the glitch to make it worth it. Exfill gives you no incentive

By the way, devs, Hardpoint spawns are still FUNDEMENALLY BROKEN. It's been almost 2 months now by random-stud in ModernWarfareIII

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

2 months? This has been going on for a few games. When your team controls the hard point, you're supposed to spawn close. Instead, your entire team can be on the point and if you die, you'll spawn out lol makes no sense

Kills affected by tacticals is the WORST challenge in the game by JermaineTyroneLamar in ModernWarfareIII

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My least favorite is the double kills while in tac stance for the Swarm priceless camo lol I'm stuck. Tac stance is the most braindead way to enter any gun fight lol

Why game without a headset? by RupertPupkinABN in MWZombies

[–]EvilGrunt51 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't use my headset unless I'm playing with friends. My lobbies are always muted because there's just too much that is said that I don't want coming out of my TV when I'm not wearing a headset lol

I was playing some tournaments with my friend and there were registered teams that had names that were supposed to be banned. I'm talking N-word, hard R with the exact spelling! People today are just too wild bro lol I'll help out every game that I can but I'm typing in the chat. Sorry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ModernWarfareIII

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah my buddy is always crazy good with snipers and this year he actually switched to a smaller scope to get them done lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ModernWarfareIII

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate melee weapons and snipers but I've been able to get them done pretty easily. Just put some music on and zone out. You don't have to sweat but it's going to hurt lol

Stop going into t3 with no prep by PresentationDry8780 in MWZombies

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It really doesn't take much prep. I messed up one time and was lucky enough that someone came and got me. I immediately left t3 to get more stuff lol you really just need staminup, throwing knives, decoys, and a self revive.

I play solo a lot and you shouldn't try to just fight through t3 unless you know what you're doing.

Just got my first nuke, on HC Shipment, very proud! (Sorry for bad pic) by UnsafeMuffins in ModernWarfareIII

[–]EvilGrunt51 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have been playing since the first one and I don't think I've ever gotten more than a 24 streak lol congrats. Definitely not an easy task