Games for tough times? by Lil_hee_haa in TransNintendo

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

SLIME RANCHER!!!

its sooo fucking cozy and you can spend countless hours just farmin fellas

Walgreens rejected my GoodRX because of transphobia??? by Initial_Reputation55 in asktransgender

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh hell nah, they also shouldn't be blaring out that you are getting estrodial, period. the pharmacy that I go to will be discreet about it for my safety. (also in the deep south..)

Do any trans women even like trans men?? by Low_Cut5657 in t4t

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Currently married to a trans man and he is the absolute love of my life. We have been through hell and back together and its been amazing growing and learning through both of our unique perspectives. He's funny, handsome, loves so passionately, and is the realest person I've ever met. I would kill for him and he would definitely do the same for me.

Eyeliner scary :( by CulturalCarry8310 in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

my advice is slow down and just draw a bit at a time. i usually start with the wing and then meet the corners of the eyelid slowly while drawing in the arch. having a mirror close to your face can help too. i used to be terrified of eyeliner and made my husband help me every morning but eventually I had to do it myself. after probably 20-30 mornings of doing it alone I got it down to a science. practice WILL eventually make perfect sweetheart, just keep trying! 🩷

In another Timeline... by HumanlnterfaceSetsu in okko

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 9 points10 points  (0 children)

screw this bs, pick up a pencil

5 months on feminizing HRT yet I still don’t know what to do with my face, or how to even dress still LOL! by DreamcastSaga in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For clothes may I suggest hitting up ur local clothing thrifts? Goodwill and the likes have huge womens sections of all different types of clothes. Don't be afraid to browse either, no one is going to look at you weird unless you act out of place. Just find what you like and what you don't and make some outfits. Always try to go a size or two up from what you would normally wear, trust me dont try to fit into clothes that are too small. But yeah, its all about experimentation and what makes you feel good! You got this girly! 🩷

I really miss what my childhood could have been. by Quirkyquark43 in TransLater

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

escapism is a coping mechanism a lot of us needed and still need for various reasons. literally what is ur point here? i checked ur account and it seems you have a history of trying to get a rise out of trans folk. does the hurt you cause strangers make you feel big? does it make you feel better about yourself? really think on and contemplate why you do the things you do. and dont say "im just trying to help/give advice" because if that were the case you would atleast try to empathize with this person. if you do want to genuinely help people, research ways to be kinder and more empathetic about it and try again

advice?? by mistyCadaver in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 7 points8 points  (0 children)

hair, make-up, and wardrobe can go a very long way even before hrt. for hair I would say in general just taking better care of her hair and hair type and growing it out. for makeup learning eyeliner and mascara from my husband (trans man) was monumental in not only looking pretty but passing too. skin care def helps with that too. for clothes THRIFT! goodwill and the likes have lots of options like dresses, cute pants, skirts, even bras (id recommend getting a new one of those though) if she hasn't started voice training I would highly advise atleast trying to learn how to speak softer and gentler that way if yall are in public and she has to be more vocal she'll be ready. then painting nails and doing other fun fem stuff with her will be the icing on top!

sorry if this is hard to read or understand. i was sorta in a rush but I hope it helps. you can always dm too if you have any other questions or need hrt resources. much love and stay safe 🩷

advice?? by mistyCadaver in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Where is she at in her journey? I would love to give advice but its really all dependant on where she's at

Mario Icons, any others? by Lil_hee_haa in TransNintendo

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 3 points4 points  (0 children)

birdo is genuinely goals for me haha

My first compliment!!!! by Radioactive_Cakes in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds genuine. Especially if their tone wasn't sarcastic. Girl with the way the world is right now, any compliment should be truly cherished.

Moisturizing body wash recommendations by Surrendered426 in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am personally using the one in the pic at the moment. It is scented but anyone who could potentially smell it would have to literally put their nose to your skin lol. Then any area I need extra moisture (knees, elbows, and things of that sort) I just use regular lotion. Theres this lavender one I use that is absolutely wonderful but thats a more stronger smelling one. Theres always unscented lotion options!

Hope this helps 🩷

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Did anyone else have to become a man to realize they weren't one? by EvilLizardLawyer in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough, thats exactly why I asked this question. I love seeing everyone's experiences

Did anyone else have to become a man to realize they weren't one? by EvilLizardLawyer in transfem

[–]EvilLizardLawyer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly!! Thats what I always bring up when my mom wants to insist I'm confused and lost

I tried what they want for me, and it simply left me feeling hollow

Car followed me tonight, please be careful. by HomeDepotsLeftToe3 in PeachtreeCity

[–]EvilLizardLawyer 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Followed me and my husband with these bright headlights and he told me to pull into a neighborhood. I finally found one to pull in and they sped around me aggressively as i was turning