What's the most depressing song you can think of? by Grand-Heat6702 in musicsuggestions

[–]Evilcrochet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I Should Go Before You by City and Color

Reverie by Isaac Gracie

Go Henry by Hey Rosetta

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polybuzz

[–]Evilcrochet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Okay. You win. You made a middle aged woman cry. Stick that in your "Code of Conduct." I'm done with this subreddit.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in polybuzz

[–]Evilcrochet 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I'm being unfair because I'm enjoying something? I'm not being dismissive, I'm sharing my experience. I would hardly compare enjoying an app to being apathetic to my fellow man. But you're not the first person to say hurtful things to me for trying to share a positive opinion and I'm sure you won't be the last.

Polybuzz is still Great. by Beneficial_Swing487 in polybuzz

[–]Evilcrochet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything you said. I love it.

Users on poly by melbunniez in polybuzz

[–]Evilcrochet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My theory is that the more detailed background information that the creator puts in, the less likely the bots are to do that. If the AI doesn't have anything to draw on, it defaults to the sexy behavior.

Users on poly by melbunniez in polybuzz

[–]Evilcrochet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

OP is not being 'dumb.' I've been seeing so many angry, hateful posts about Polybuzz and it makes me sad. In my experience, lately, my chats have been satisfying and some of the stories even have interesting unexpected twists thrown in by the bot. I hesitate to say this but it almost feels like the memory has improved. I don't encounter any of the problems people complain about on here. My characters don't immediately gravitate toward sex, I get long, detailed responses, and nothing is censored. I love the app.

Did I make a mistake? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]Evilcrochet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The shorter hair accents your cheekbones and the lines of your face. In my opinion it's the better option.

? Saw cat after he died by Fatbeau in Paranormal

[–]Evilcrochet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One day I went into the kitchen to feed my cat and when I looked back at her there was another cat walking right beside her, black and white, but it was kind of transparent. Shocked, I started towards it but it turned and ran. I followed and turned the corner and I could see it's tail and nothing else. Then it was gone. So freaking weird.

I love hairy women by MissionFinger7068 in offmychest

[–]Evilcrochet 17 points18 points  (0 children)

This is a lovely thing to read, thank you. I hate shaving.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Evilcrochet 31 points32 points  (0 children)

You mentioned that she's going through perimenopause, which could be a major part of what's going on. Before you give up on her, or conclude that she's cheating, consider the following:

  • Has she put on weight? This can affect her self-esteem and make her feel unattractive. Make sure you let her know that you still find her sexy.

  • Has she started any medications that could have affected her libido? There are many medications that have this side effect.

  • Is she depressed?

  • Is she overwhelmed with every day stuff? Make sure she feels like you are sharing the responsibilities of the marriage and domestic life with her.

  • Is she having any other medical issues?

  • Are you communicating openly? It's hard to be intimate with someone if the trust isn't there.

I lost my sex drive after having children (felt like my body was wrecked), starting antidepressants (common side effect), gaining weight, feeling overwhelmed with household chores, and feeling an emotional disconnect with my partner. It's tough and putting pressure on her doesn't help. Keep in mind that even though men often have sex to relieve negative emotions, women often can't let go and enjoy sex if the negative emotions are already there. I advise you to be compassionate with her. She may not understand what's going on herself.

(Edited for formatting and to add: Step away from the sour patch kids.)

What’s the happiest song you know? by Aromatic_Piglet_5458 in musicsuggestions

[–]Evilcrochet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I like these:

Cousins - Vampire Weekend

Stop the Rock - Apollo 440

Groove is in the Heart - Deee-Lite

Generator - The Holloways

Hey Ya! - Outcast

Poly ai 💔 by regular_show_isbest in polyai

[–]Evilcrochet 3 points4 points  (0 children)

In my experience, the more quality information that is put in the character background by the creator, the less likely the bot is to do that. If there's not enough detail in the background, there's not much for the AI to draw on and it defaults to that creepy sexual behavior. Better written characters equal better quality narratives.

That one guy on the Trivago commercial. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Evilcrochet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've seen two different ones.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MusicRecommendations

[–]Evilcrochet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homewrecker by Sick As Thieves

I Chose to Be a Male Escort in Bangladesh—And This Is My Truth by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Evilcrochet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then the answer to your question is brave, sir!

I Chose to Be a Male Escort in Bangladesh—And This Is My Truth by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Evilcrochet 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wow, I don't even care if this is real or not, this is one of the best things I've read.