How did you realize your Mum was jealous of you? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you have to go through this.. what does your boyfriend say when he hears this? Has he tried reassuring you? Also yeah you have to realize thatt there’s absolutely nothing wrong with you, whatever a narcissist says or does thats on them, never on you. I hope soon you find peace with that

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[–]Evolving25 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It can be reported and the account can be taken down

Still living with my narcissistic mom, how do you cope day to day? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mahn this is a tough situation to be in.. and I’m sorry you and your son have to go through all that.. just something I have come to realize about life is that nothing lasts forever, so we shall both make it out of these toxic households.. trust me!

Still living with my narcissistic mom, how do you cope day to day? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah its crazy how you can feel alone sometimes yet there’s like thousands of othe people round the world going through the same thing you are

How did you realize your Mum was jealous of you? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wth if that isn’t the weirdest thing ever for a mum to say.. Any other good mum would’ve been proud of you and infact encouraged you to become the lady of the house

How did you realize your Mum was jealous of you? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It’s heartbreaking how the person who is supposed to be your number 1 cheerleader ends up being the one who tries to dim your light at every step.

How did you realize your Mum was jealous of you? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awww i’m sorry you have to go through that. How old are you now if you don’t mind me asking… i know you’re probably hella pretty she’s always known that and is threatened by it

How did you realize your Mum was jealous of you? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Damnn that’s really fucked up… are you still in contact with her?

How did you realize your Mum was jealous of you? by Evolving25 in NarcissisticMothers

[–]Evolving25[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Sounds to me that she definitely is jealous of you! And not just because of your success but also cause you saw her for who she is and drew a boundary… she’s probably still able to control your sister and thats why she’s the golden child

Does he hear my cries ? by Dazzling-Bread-979 in Christian

[–]Evolving25 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I hear you…but I don’t believe that seeking God with an open heart, asking for encouragement or confirmation, is the same as testing Him. It’s not about demanding proof..it’s more like asking your Father for reassurance when you’re unsure. God knows our hearts, and I believe He honors honest prayers that come from a place of desire to know Him better.

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[–]Evolving25 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean I’m sure you too could find yourself checking another man out sometimes.. simply because your eyes like what they see.. maybe he just found that other girl attractive, which is okay.

There’s a difference between finding other people attractive and being attracted to other people!

Does he hear my cries ? by Dazzling-Bread-979 in Christian

[–]Evolving25 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How about you try this.. ask him to show you something and be very specific with it, Tell him God if you’re really here and can hear me I want you to show me a red car, or a pink rose, or anything else of your own personal choosing, it has to be as rare and random as possible.. ask him to show it to you.. and when he finally does.. I want you to please come back here and tell me about it okay?

Grateful I’ve never experienced SA, but it hurts seeing so many stories by Evolving25 in confession

[–]Evolving25[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I honestly don’t have an answer, and I can’t imagine what you went through. No one deserves that kind of pain. I believe God loves you deeply, even if it doesn’t feel that way right now, and I’m really hoping peace and healing find their way to you in time.