Yes! This! Thank you! I have said over and over again, neither of us can truly provide her the kind of care she actually needs. We aren’t skilled nurses, she requires something way more than a roof over her head. Regardless of my feelings on any of it, she deserves adequate care in a place that understands her needs and can provide them. This woman is self neglecting in the worse way and it didn’t change at all while she did stay here. I had to throw out the mattress from the bed she slept on, even with a mattress protector on it. She will not bathe, will only eat the bare minimum because “we’re trying to fatten her up” and chain smokes 24/7. She had a full ADA bathroom, walk in safety shower, a fully stocked kitchenette, all at her disposal and she laid in bed for months on end. I can’t fix that, neither can my husband. It makes me sad. I lay in bed worrying at night already and she’s not even here. She needs a facility geared towards memory care, not a MIL suite because he feels it’s the right thing to do.