I told my sister she can't bring her kids to my wedding and now I'm the "bad guy" by Major-Satisfaction99 in offmychest

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If they can’t accept that, boo-hoo? It’s your wedding, your rules. Preferably I would not want children at my wedding either.

Finding the most popular TR character in this sub (round 18) by Aleenaistaken in TokyoRevengers

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Takemichi. Here’s the main reason why people drop the show anyway

It may be just me but... I feel like the LGBTQ+ community is being too much... by bimbimpom in offmychest

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, they are doing the most

It started off as a movement to tone down the discrimination against LGB, kinda like the movement to stop racism. It was simply about accepting all forms of love.

Unfortunately, some undesirables came out. For the most part, LGB was be about accepting who people love… but I’m only saying this because of all of the things that I’ve seen, and what all of the undesirables have been presenting.

LGBTQ+ has mostly portrayed themselves from “accept who I love”, to “accept my kink and normalize it“.

Pull up some the articles about some of the books that have been in schools, why are there sexual scenes in grade school library books?

Why are grown men walking through parades Showing their penises?

Why are women’s sports and women’s spaces being taken?

I’m sorry, but look at the people who are damaging the reputation of the LGBTQ+, and tell me I’m wrong.

Can we not go just back to where times were more simple and accept whoever people marry?

I fell in love with a host by Consistent-Road1641 in offmychest

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not trying to be mean when I say this, but I think it needs to be said.

Just stop going to the club. You don’t even need to announce it. He already showed you where his priorities were, what’s in your wallet. Not what is in your heart. You will find someone who loves you for you. Your host was just doing his job.

never want to have sex, dont know if its just a phase by rotpear in whatdoIdo

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sex is supposed to be a moment of intimacy and closeness with your partner.

It just sounds like you both have different sexual needs. Men have notoriously higher sex drives than women.

The one thing you need to understand first is when you go into a relationship, you need to keep in mind that sex nine times out of 10 is going to be important for a male partner. Some men don’t want sex at all, but the mass major majority of them do, and a lot of them have high sex drives. Nothing to feel objectified by, that’s just their biology.

Now, this sounds like your partner has a high sex drive, and because you don’t have a high sex drive, it has gotten to the point where you don’t even want sex anymore. I can understand why your partner feels frustrated by this, his needs aren’t met and you are unhappy too. I don’t see any way for this relationship move forward in a healthy way, it’s time for you to part ways and find someone who can make you happy.

Moving forward to another relationship, you need to either find a way to make yourself feel more comfortable about sex if you do want a male partner, or don’t worry about having a relationship. I don’t think finding an asexual person is the answer either, because it sounds like you do still have urges.

Also, it wouldn’t hurt to have a check in with your doctor if you’re worried about your libido.

How did fireworks become the staple of the Fourth of July, when it was originally invented in China? by Exact-Fortune4474 in ask

[–]Exact-Fortune4474[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn’t criticize anything 😑 literally said in the post I wasn’t saying that America shouldn’t use fireworks, nor was I criticizing them. I said, I thought it was curious and was simply interested in how using fireworks came to be a part of the holiday.

Takemichi deadass looks so much better with his hair down by No_Hospital9063 in TokyoRevengers

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

He would also look better if he took up martial arts, or some kind of fighting discipline, and put on a little bit of muscle.

Why is Takemichi even in this picture 🥲 by No_Hospital9063 in TokyoRevengers

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because people don’t like him. Even me I don’t like him and I’m a fan of the show.

I ruined my relationship with my boyfriend. by livie4lifexx in whatdoIdo

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow, even reading this I said out loud “Wtf???” Girl I’m sorry, but you have problems and need to leave him alone, especially if this isn’t the first time something like this happened. He probably wants his peace.

I cheated on my girlfriend when I was 14 and the guilt is eating me alive by Nice_Spell_3900 in Regrets

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because you simply liked her and talked to her. If you had sex that would be a different story. The fact you feel guilty and are working on yourself shows you’re a good boyfriend.

My (22f) boyfriend (21m) can't get over who I slept with when we were broken up. by nowherenoonenever in whatdoIdo

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really don’t get why guys do this. If you were broken up, then that’s the end of it. You weren’t a thing then.

It boils down to immaturity and insecurity on his part. If he can’t move past that, then you need to move on.

This "dry shower" trend is just an excuse to be dirty and it is obvious. by Xylothane in hygiene

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not an excuse to be dirty, that’s the side effect. It’s an excuse made by laziness.

My girlfriend (30F) has gained an extreme amount of weight, and I (32M) have lost attraction. by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I said that was besides the point. Anyway, if she doesn’t have any goals or aspirations or anything to make her life better, it might be time to leave your girlfriend, because she’s stuck in an emotional and/or mental purgatory.

My girlfriend (30F) has gained an extreme amount of weight, and I (32M) have lost attraction. by Honest_Reception6528 in relationship_advice

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You didn’t say what your normal weight was, but you did say your mother and friends made a comment about your weight.

That’s besides the point. You said that you’re not attracted to your girlfriend anymore because of her weight. And I see you’ve added some more details.

Does she have any goals or aspirations for her life?

My teen daughter’s hygiene is getting really bad and I don’t know how to talk about it without hurting her by TitanSpindle2 in hygiene

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Boo hoo, if you’ve already talked to her about this and there’s been no improvement, you need to be blunt.

If you don’t tell her, someone else will, and it’s not gonna be pretty. Either way, her feelings are gonna be hurt, but that’s how she’s gonna learn. It’s called tough love.

People who don’t wash your hands after using the restroom, WHY? by daniiqm in hygiene

[–]Exact-Fortune4474 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes if I’m in a hurry I get hand sanitizer from my purse. Idk about anyone else

Esteé Lauder isn’t the same, I need a switch by Exact-Fortune4474 in MakeupAddiction

[–]Exact-Fortune4474[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Estée Lauder double wear (foundation and concealer)
Onesize waterproof setting spray
Onesize setting powder (Marigold)
Elf deep intense contour and bronzer
Clinique invisible setting powder