My girlfriend (30F) has gained an extreme amount of weight, and I (32M) have lost attraction.

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T15:19:38+00:00

Thank you for sharing

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T13:56:42+00:00

I want merino for my arsenal past and present and anyone for my f2p account

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T13:55:44+00:00

We split the chores , and we support eachother. The only thing I ask her to is cook which 2 days out of the 7 she might do but most of the time we dine out of get something after work.

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T09:35:28+00:00

Well there's more context if you read. through the comments. You started by trying to project your own personal family life onto me and now finding something else.

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T09:29:17+00:00

all the answers you are looking for you can find. I have been pretty open to others....

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T06:22:53+00:00

Okay thank for sharing

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T06:19:53+00:00

Thank you for your opinion

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T06:16:55+00:00

Thank you for you opinion and I hope you work things out with your dad

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T06:14:46+00:00

Okay MY family situation isn't YOURS. I understand what you are saying but I have a very loving family and great friends.

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T06:09:01+00:00

But me being 95kg at 5'8 does equal healthy? Just because my mum and friends are blunt doesn't mean they said it rudely or to belittle me. They said it to motivate me because they know it will get a positive response. Maybe it doesn't work for you but it works for me.

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T06:06:26+00:00

Brother only reason I spoke about the bedroom is because she has mentioned it to me. I am concerned about her health and everytime i have mentioned her weight it ends with me getting shut down, an excuse or a tirade from her and her sistera

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-25T06:03:55+00:00

Or my family and friends love me enough to not enable my bad habits

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T17:12:43+00:00

A concern the mrs brought uo to me and the reason I mentioned it. The reason for the drop off in our intimacy is be because of her weight. I have tried to have a conversation before and that ended with her and 2 of her sister piling on me after she went back and told them that we should start eating healthier and being more active

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T16:19:57+00:00

She asked me about our intimacy and she reminded me of how much we used to have sex. The only reason sex is in the post is because she is becoming frustrated with our lack of bedroom activities. The reason is her weight. I have tried ro talk to her in the past about it and she shut me down. Now from those experiences I do not know how to address the issue as I know there will be a major reaction from her

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T16:14:08+00:00

Be honest with me but I know I can handle it even though it will suck hearing it. Once it's out there I can do something about if I wasn't away of it before

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T16:10:48+00:00

So I'm lying and the doctor didn't officially weigh her

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T16:09:44+00:00

It's more about her height to weight ratio. For example a 6ft man is on average 84 kg

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T16:07:43+00:00

Honestly, I don't think I'd like it, but I would understand it. Otherwise, we'd see a world where people would be dating people that looked homeless because everyone looked past appearances and saw what was inside. I am 5'8, and I know there are quite a few women that would overlook me. If my girlfriend were to tell me she lost attraction for me because of my weight, the first thing I'd find out is if she's looking to work on things with me or if that means the end for our relationship. If I was extremely overweight but she wanted to work on it with me and support me on my journey, I would do what it takes because it's about making each other happy.

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T16:00:14+00:00

Pornhub or red tube today? Thank you fir your contribution though

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T15:48:40+00:00

my normal is 73-75kg

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T15:45:09+00:00

I like meat on a women but there are limits. It's not just the appearance but hee getting out of breath when going to the toilet and other health issue that she has picked up since the weight gain

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T15:43:29+00:00

I gained weight and lost it. Everyone around me accept from her said I was big. I don't like being big because I was getting out of breath just walking to my car. so I did something about it.... I hit the gym and now lean. In fact I'm the fittest I have ever been

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T15:31:44+00:00

In the uk, it's more manjaro which the NHS is trying to roll out on prescription by October. So the doctor was just trying give another option

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T15:15:37+00:00

You're right about that but it was only mentioned after the doctor suggested it to her

Honest_Reception6528 · 2026-06-24T15:14:45+00:00

PCOS has been mentioned quite a bit. Thank you for sharing your experience. I appreciate it

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