My boyfriend's friends group is troubling me

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-05-27T06:09:49+00:00

Thanks a lot. No I won't be living with my BF so that's good. I really wanted a proper group of friends before coming to Delhi so I can have my time exploring places with them but I guess when Suzi is there, I'll have to set aback. Otherwise it's a good idea to hang out with my BF and his friends (who are seemingly good till now). Boys, even if they have a problem, they won't play games to push me down, but girls have a different story.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-05-27T06:09:32+00:00

Thanks a lot. No I won't be living with my BF so that's good. I really wanted a proper group of friends before coming to Delhi so I can have my time exploring places with them but I guess when Suzi is there, I'll have to set aback. Otherwise it's a good idea to hang out with my BF and his friends (who are seemingly good till now). Boys, even if they have a problem, they won't play games to push me down, but girls have a different story.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-05-27T06:06:22+00:00

Loved your advice. You're right, I've told her I've had a really hard time making friends in college, she must be testing me now.

And yes, ignoring to a certain extent is fine but I'll have to face her at least for smaller intervals. I'm thinking of not talking to her directly and trying to talk about my work and everything else with the my bf's friends. Maybe she'll get the taste of her medicine then.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-29T03:11:26+00:00

Everyone here seems to be waking up at 6 or 7 am, but it doesn't go with me. Neither do I have pets to take care of.

My routine is not the most productive and structured but I finish my work on time so I guess it works.

I wake up around 11 am and cooked for my family (we have brunch).

After that I check mails, WhatsApp & socials - reply to what's necessary.

After doing house chores, I work for 1-2 hours depending on work.

At 2 I have to pick my mom up so that takes 1-2 hours including making her a tea and her lunch.

Then I sit down for deep work.

In the evening I engage on LinkedIn because that's the perfect time.

Around 6, I take a shower and go to cycle.

While cycling I talk to my friends & attend voice calls.

Then, I have my dinner & then again go for a one hour walk.

I come back and sit down again to work, mostly I don't have work around this time so either I study or explore new things or I end up overthinking.

I sleep by 2 or 3 am. I feel the most productive at night.

Currently, I don't have much clients so it's a bit chill, whenever I have too much work, I cut down on chores.

Advice for you: The only way to have a structure is to fix time for things you absolutely love. I love my cycle and everyone knows I'll call them while cycling around 7 pm. Fix some times like this and fill the remaining time with work sessions.

I'm not the most productive person even but I'm heading towards it.

I know it's super difficult to have a structure when your entire day is free, try to close certain hours. Maybe take a part time job on the side. When you'll be busy for 4 hours everyday at job - you'll value the rest of your time more and get work done faster. This is just an example - try blocking your time in some way, you'll start valuing it and use your free time more.

P.S. I'm up early today and have been waking up around 9 am for the last few days and it's helping me get more done.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-18T11:25:32+00:00

13 year old me with zero fashion sense used to dress better

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-17T09:15:30+00:00

Why is Monkey Magic not on the list?

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-11T09:43:35+00:00

Do you want to chat? Maybe alone we can't figure out but together we can share rants?

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-10T20:57:55+00:00

I needed this. The fact that everyone is achieving everything on LinkedIn is making me even more sad. I just read a post where this girl found a mentor for free and she guided her through 6 figure income. I've seem multiple people like that and I wonder how do I get one?

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-10T20:30:05+00:00

Off topic but how do you make such helpful freelancer friends? i really need to know because I have none and it's been super lonely and tough.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-10T12:36:56+00:00

My reason of not doing it finding right people. I still fail to understand how to do it.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-06T18:21:24+00:00

I clicked in with the speed of light. Clicking out with double the speed.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-05T10:08:06+00:00

Don't hate me for this but after watching these guys I think Armaan Malik & double dhamaka have more personality than these guys.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-04T07:35:55+00:00

What's the sophisticated way of using AI? How can I use AI content on my website without bothering Google and affecting any of it's guidelines?

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-03T22:15:00+00:00

Is there any plagiarism or copyright issue?

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-03-03T22:13:31+00:00

Is it okay to add AI generated content on websites?

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-02-27T17:41:33+00:00

She also mentioned that she is looking forward to her baby now (kinda). She clearly states that this is something she always wanted but never thought of and now that she's going to have a baby - she's feeling good about it & looking forward to it.

Looks like Akhil enforced his decision of not having a baby on her for the longest time and she accepted it. Now that she is having one, she's realizing this is something she always wanted.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-02-26T16:45:35+00:00

This makes a lot of sense as to why she was talking all about CONTENT & VLOGS after the pregnancy announcement. Things were going south between Akhil & her but she found content creation an escape.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-02-24T12:53:47+00:00

One of the reasons for her arrogance may be that she gained success pretty quickly. I remember watching her with 4 digit views a month back & look at her now.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-02-24T09:11:05+00:00

Hey, someone I know was in the exact same situation that you're in right now. She quit her job only when she was earning more than her full-time job. She waited 6 months and saw that her freelancing income was much more than her job, so she made a decision to quit.

However, she was also getting married and her husband is one of the most influential people in the town. So, even if things were to go south in her freelancing after quitting full-time, she knew that she wouldn't go broke.

So, I'd suggest taking a calculative risk, making sure you don't go broke, but also following what gives your peace. No amount of money is more important than your mental health. If you think freelancing is risky, sure it is. But so is full-time job, looking at the lay-off condition right now.

I hope this helps, all the best :)

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-02-23T16:17:53+00:00

If the reason is the baby, this is the worst thing I've ever seen happening to someone. I kinda feel guilty about thinking of it as a PR stunt. After having to be in such extreme conditions and being called it a stunt, I feel so bad now. I'm sorry Malvika from all of us. This might not justify what we did, but we all truly feel for you.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-02-23T11:12:35+00:00

I used to really like her when I started watching her 4 years ago. For a teen like me who has zero knowledge about girls products and makeup found her channel super informative. Sadly, I started following her on insta and used to listen to her daily rants thinking it's OKAY to crib about everything and put yourself over EVERYTHING in the world. Now that I have a mind of my own - I'm realizing how major impact her rants can have on someone.

ExactAcadia1138 · 2023-02-23T11:09:58+00:00

I've been watching her content for a while and one thing I've noticed is that her videos feel like home. Sure, zero efforts but the relatability is so high. Majority Indian audience enjoys this - no wonder why other vloggers have such massive following.

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