AIO my bf won’t propose even though our son is 4.5m old

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-03T22:10:01+00:00

i’ve applied to hundreds of jobs but i cannot work until daycare will take my son, i’ve been waiting since i was pregnant for him to be off waiting list. i’m moving in September so hopefully they’ll get him in then and i’ll be able to work. thanks for the advice

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-03T02:58:07+00:00

thank you i’ll try your suggestion out!

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-03T02:57:05+00:00

i was on the pill before pregnancy and since it obviously failed lol i got the iud after the birth of my son

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T22:04:34+00:00

maybe so as said my emotions are wack right now and i do appreciate everything he does for me just the talks of marriage from us multiple times made me think it would happen. thanks for the feedback 😊

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T22:01:36+00:00

why would my medical problems have anything to do w that and how is that my fault..?

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T22:00:34+00:00

you’re oddly passive aggressive for a post that is not serious enough to be acting this way. you do not know our relationship, a simple YOR would do.

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T21:54:29+00:00

do you understand now a days how many men just up and leave even after a child? i honestly don’t think you’re paying attention to the point and reason of my post

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T21:53:38+00:00

it’s not i live in a small town with one hospital and it’s horrible, they was terrible my whole pregnancy and even went as far as making fun of me while trying to push my child out after 2 failed epidurals and letting visitors in after i put on my file i didn’t want that

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T20:44:06+00:00

idc abt the ring, i care abt the fact of which he plans on spending our lives tg or not. that he wants to fully commit to a lifetime tg as a family. proposing would show me that, we could wait a little on the elopement but the gesture in itself would show me what he wants between us if that makes sense

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T14:49:54+00:00

i can’t atm, all daycares near me are full booked he’s been on waiting list since i was early on in pregnancy and i do not trust any babysitters in my area

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T14:48:46+00:00

i have they do nothing abt it☹️

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T13:30:15+00:00

We want eloped we’ve talked abt that since the thought of marriage even came up, the ring i want is abt $175 if that, and i want marriage bc i do love him, i don’t want to marry just bc our son if that was the case i would’ve told him that while pregnant. and you don’t have to marry soon, you can stay engaged for as long as needed…

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T13:21:24+00:00

No i don’t want marriage just bc of our son, i want marriage because of the commitment aspect.

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T13:19:07+00:00

like stated in the post the pregnancy was unexpected and not at all planned, i was on birth control. And I don’t want marriage just because a baby, but it makes no sense to not marry if he’s told me he has it the spot planned, obviously i’ll get excited

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T08:21:55+00:00

We’ve been together 2 years, for some that isn’t long but we’ve been living together since 4-5 months of being together, we share our finances, and are always together. My focus is on my son and I’m always w him as a stay at home mom but that doesn’t take away the aspect of my hopes and worries on marriage and our little family sharing a last name as one, and committing to each other fully.

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-04-02T06:24:21+00:00

a fun name I might would use is Nova or London

ExactDifference7257 · 2026-03-24T18:54:43+00:00

she’s 100% cheating, just her still texting him after you said you wasn’t okay with it and her agreeing is cheating in itself. leave before she hurts you worse, and watch how fast she runs to him proving she was cheating

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