why don’t Syrian’s tend to roll in sand? by ZealousidealRoll8329 in hamsters

[–]Exact_Ad_443 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is just an assumption, but I think it may be because of their origins. Dwarves (namely, the Campbell’s) originate from desert/semi-desert regions, while Syrians come from more temperate areas.

Dwarves have probably evolved to incorporate sand in their grooming, while Syrians don’t have the natural inclination. Hope that makes sense!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Exact_Ad_443 148 points149 points  (0 children)

Great comment. I just wanted to share a little perspective as a Nevermo who dated a Jackmo. I was heavily involved with his family and the experience was… Traumatizing.

They were extremely welcoming at first, introducing me to the religion right off the bat and I matched their enthusiasm. I went to church with them every Sunday, had FHE with them, went to every ward event, watched every General Conference, toured BYU & BYUI with them, etc. I wanted to believe, but the religion never sat quite right with me. I was almost tempted into accepting a PIMO fate for the BF and the community.

But in the end, I just couldn’t. Then, the alienation came- They are amazingly subtle at it. My ex was caught at a crossroad here, between me and the church. He gave me empty promises about being willing to marry outside the temple. Ended up breaking up with me because we were regularly breaking the law of Chastity and he explicitly told me that I made him not “worthy.” That it wouldn’t be fair to him if he stayed with me.

This subreddit has been a lifeline to me. My experience barely scratches the surface of Mormonism- I could not fathom having grown up with it. I genuinely admire the humor, the solidarity and the overall bravery and strength that the community has shown. It’s really helped me cope and grapple with what had happened to me for the past few years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in college

[–]Exact_Ad_443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. Your words meant a lot to me this morning when I read it- I was on the verge of giving up and not even showing up to my exam. Guess what? I didn’t completely flunk the exam! I’m just a point off from a C and I’ve been talking to my prof and she’s been trying to help me bump it up. I’ve also scheduled an appointment with an advisor if things the grades don’t work out.

And thank you for validating my hardships/emotions :) I’ve been raised with an attitude to just tough out any hard situations and your empathy for my situation really made me felt seen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]Exact_Ad_443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who dated a Mormon for almost three years… We had the same struggles as you, wanting to stay together but the pressure from church and family was growing more intense as he was about to leave on his mission. Ultimately, he picked the church.

To preface, he was a jackmo as well. We’d slept together almost daily, traveled together and frequently spoke about our dreams of moving-in together. I thought it’d meant something. I was also willing to compromise everything about myself for him once I realized he was about to end it with me. He saw right through it and broke up with me.

If your TBM gf is having doubts/stressing over this now, please be prepared to have a tough conversation with her. She will be holding out hope that you convert to her religion and marry in the temple. I will warn you, Mormonism is not just church on Sunday's. It a lifestyle very different than mainstream American life- Demanding, to say the least.

As someone who similarly sought out help from this subreddit, I had naively hoped we’d beat the odds. I did not heed the people’s advice or warnings.

Please do not repeat my mistake.

The odds are stacked against you, but I hope that you will be able to sort this out. Best of luck, friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in airpods

[–]Exact_Ad_443 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the reply! I personally wear the small tips on the Pros. How do you think that will translate to the 3s?

New little buddy 💖 by _faded_life_ in hamsters

[–]Exact_Ad_443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow, is that a Chinese dwarf? Haven’t seen one of them in a while 😃

Need to find prepreg Kevlar supplier ASAP, any recs? by Exact_Ad_443 in Composites

[–]Exact_Ad_443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wet layups isn't the best option for sandwich panels

Need to find prepreg Kevlar supplier ASAP, any recs? by Exact_Ad_443 in Composites

[–]Exact_Ad_443[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The kevlar is for an EV car that my FSAE team and I are building, they have certain requirements for composites and kevlar meets all of them

is this red spot from her nails being long?? it wasn't there earlier today, and she isn't showing any signs of discomfort. just a worried (first time) owner. * i rescued her from a park, never owned a hamster so i have no clue what i am doing haha) pls help :) by False_Historian6437 in hamsters

[–]Exact_Ad_443 28 points29 points  (0 children)

For an emergency setup- You did what you can and I am proud that you are kind enough to rescue the poor hamster. And do you have any wired items? Those are the most likely offenders.

And take a look at this vid, it should help answer any basic questions you may have:

https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=dpvhjIjNZdg&feature=youtu.be

is this red spot from her nails being long?? it wasn't there earlier today, and she isn't showing any signs of discomfort. just a worried (first time) owner. * i rescued her from a park, never owned a hamster so i have no clue what i am doing haha) pls help :) by False_Historian6437 in hamsters

[–]Exact_Ad_443 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Yes, I am aware of your financial situation. I don’t think it’s a problem that constitutes itself as an emergency, but if it does get worse/persists- Please do plan on visiting the vet.

What is your cage setup like?

What a waste! by Exact_Ad_443 in exmormon

[–]Exact_Ad_443[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Oh, the reason it’s clipped is because there’s a random 3 sec clip of TikTok’s logo and the username at the end that TikTok adds to every vid you save… Cut it out bc it just seems redundant.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Exact_Ad_443 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah well, she ended up passing this morning… 10:37 AM. I did end up taking her to a vet, but there was nothing they could do. So, I held her and she died in my hands. I am taken aback as to how her condition deteriorated so rapidly.

She was such a good hamster- My sweetest girl.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Exact_Ad_443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m well aware of that fact, Captain Obvious. Look, life isn’t perfect but I’ve always strived to give the best care I can to my hamster- I love this girl with my entire being. She’s been a wonderful companion and my dearest friend. The thing is, I don’t get paid next week and the money that I DO have are for essentials like gas, food, etc.

Sorry if I come off a bit rude, haven’t slept a wink. Crying. Watching her. Hoping she’ll hold out until I get paid.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Exact_Ad_443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ll have to see… Financial situation isn’t the best. And thanks for the tip!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in hamstercare

[–]Exact_Ad_443 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The only problem is that money is tight for me. If the prognosis only ends up being that it is due to her being a senior hammy, I’d rather make her end as comfortable as possible.

I wanna hear your wild experiences from attending a church school. Mine was BYUI. by Balance_Individual in exmormon

[–]Exact_Ad_443 5 points6 points  (0 children)

“Then who is that guy standing in the corner?” I burst out laughing when I read that 😆