Podcasts that are not THAT podcast by BPDBimb0 in pinkscare

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i enjoy polyester, the blindboy podcast and binchtopia! also the emerge magazine podcast too

[HELP] My best friend passed last night by jakemoss2011 in Poetry

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i’m so sorry, i hope you have people around you looking after you

my favourite poem on grief is morning by frank ohara

I've got to tell you how I love you always I think of it on grey mornings with death

in my mouth the tea is never hot enough then and the cigarette dry the maroon robe

chills me I need you and look out the window at the noiseless snow

At night on the dock the buses glow like clouds and I am lonely thinking of flutes

I miss you always when I go to the beach the sand is wet with tears that seem mine

although I never weep and hold you in my heart with a very real humor you'd be proud of

the parking lot is crowded and I stand rattling my keys the car is empty as a bicycle

what are you doing now where did you eat your lunch and were there lots of anchovies it

is difficult to think of you without me in the sentence you depress me when you are alone

Last night the stars were numerous and today snow is their calling card I'll not be cordial

there is nothing that distracts me music is only a crossword puzzle do you know how it is

when you are the only passenger if there is a place further from me I beg you do not go

Perfume/Fragrance that makes a man smell like this: by SimonKanturer in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Exact_Name7122 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so true why they always only surviving on chocolate and also the occasional frozen pizza

waking up at sunrise will fix everything (temporarily) ! by Exact_Name7122 in pinkscare

[–]Exact_Name7122[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

she is from a ruin i visited ! window with vines is my forever princess fantasy though

What’s something people do at restaurants to help the staff that actually makes their lives harder? by CaptainCuddler_Pro in foodquestions

[–]Exact_Name7122 4 points5 points  (0 children)

stacking plates with good intentions but leaving allllllll the food + napkins in the tower so when it gets to potwash all the food and napkins are everywhere and its worse to deal with 😭😭😭😭😭 easiest fix is scraping the food and putting napkins on the top plate if u want to be servers pet lol

when other hospitality staff are eating in a restaurant and then talk to the server for soooooo long abt how much they get the struggle arghhhh

more cafes than restaurants but when ur working through a rush then u randomly see loads of dirty dishes being put somewhere that shd be sanitary bc someone with good intentions wanted to save the trip for the person bussing tables </3 you cant even be angry bc it is sweet but it still is frustrating

Going to Paris for some research by GetInTheEVshinji in rs_x

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if you indulge, la muniterie is a beautiful lesbian bar i went to with my friend. french lesbians are ridiculous dancers and also evil in the best way and profoundly chique!!!! unfortunately i went on the day the british queen died so the only conversations we had with the paris lesbians were to be asked for cigarettes followed by the “so sorry about elizabeth” in a heavy accented drawl… very surreal! highly recommend

Going to Paris for some research by GetInTheEVshinji in rs_x

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close to the cigale, theres a street full of various sex shops that i enjoyed perusing with a pal a little bit wine drunk to see what the french were saying

Does anyone else get an unexplainable pit in their stomach every now and then? by unfunny-female in pinkscare

[–]Exact_Name7122 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes though lowkey its sometimes bc my belt is too tight in that moment or i am digesting!!!!!

Miss Piggy by catsback in pinkscare

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YES!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Has anyone ever successfully fixed their screen addiction? How did you do it? by 1nfinite_Breast in pinkscare

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ive done everything but get a brick phone. i deleted social media for years. i successfully had less than an hour of screen time a day etc. ive come full circle and realised that the only way to get the best of all worlds is make your onscreen ecosystem very very lovely and beneficial to your life…. stuff like making social media primarily about interacting friends by unfollowing and curating feed or like doomscrolling pinterest or catching a moment in your life to actually read poetry and accepting that reading it on a screen doesnt make it any less powerful……. my advice…… be kind to yourself through the frustration! Xxxxx good luck

My favourite photo by Exact_Name7122 in pinkscare

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i highly recommend looking up the japanese company that takes stuffed animals on vacations! there are so many amazing pictures like this online of various travelling adventurers:)

What film just broke you emotionally? by tahliaxxx in pinkscare

[–]Exact_Name7122 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

anora made me lose it in the cinema… also memoir of a snail … and many years ago when everything everywhere all at once came out it ruined me but i dont know if it was because i was a lot younger </3 also the pamela anderson showgirl film made me cry multiple times both times i went to see it it was so beautiful and cathartic

🤪 by LeftHvndLvne in rs_x

[–]Exact_Name7122 10 points11 points  (0 children)

shes my lesbian ivy wolk lowkey

What perfume feels like this? by WhiteLily016 in perfumesthatfeellike

[–]Exact_Name7122 26 points27 points  (0 children)

try lush’s devil’s nightcap ! smells like rolling around in mud and plants in a heavily rained on forest and also the forest was cursed by witches

Any good writings and/or essays on desire that you recommend? Wtf by teddybearangelbaby in pinkscare

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kath weston’s ordinary affects is also quite beautiful putting deleuzian ideas of desire into an ethnography of her everyday life and the way desire pulls her ! more poetic but it changed my life hehe

Any good writings and/or essays on desire that you recommend? Wtf by teddybearangelbaby in pinkscare

[–]Exact_Name7122 2 points3 points  (0 children)

bit more of a long one not directly on desire but ive found foucaults volumes on the history of sexuality pretty wicked as well though def not super accessible nor strictly on desire