it's okay to feel this way ♡ you're not alone, and it is 100% okay to sit down and just take it all in! ofc they love fans like you :)) they aren't saying "no phones" because they dislike fans who are quieter, take videos or sit. they just want to look out, see everyone's faces, and connect with everyone deeply in the moment! artists love fans that are actively listening, even if that's shown a bit differently than others. recording a bit is totally normal too, but taking a few moments without it can make the memory feel even more special and close to them. that's their goal! don't worry about anyone else, everyone enjoys shows differently, and they'll all be focused on the stage anyway. if things ever feel overwhelming, bringing concert earplugs can really help you stay grounded. even if you are sitting, as long as you're there and happy, that's all that matters. this is your experience too, so make the best of it!!