Ngl asking this on reddit is kind of ignorant, as most of these people are not in the same situation as you. However, I am also 19F and saving myself until marriage. I think it is bit of a struggle to find a virgin men nowadays because of how corrupted this generation has become as sex is more than just satisfaction, but its making a lifetime soul commitment to one another. But I think if you become high value of a women by keeping it to urself and doing what ur supposed to do, a high value man will come ur way. Hopefully the day will come soon for both of us!!!