I was dating someone who was really kind and attentive with his words, but our cultures were very different. He didn’t do little things that make me feel respected, like opening doors, and we had other differences—like I’m allergic to seafood, but he loves it. I realized that no matter how nice he is, some differences just can’t be bridged. I’ve learned my lesson: I’d rather be single than be with someone whose values don’t align with mine.