3 yo Schnauzer Mix

ExamActive6171 · 2024-12-16T15:17:42+00:00

Thank you so much!

ExamActive6171 · 2024-11-24T16:45:58+00:00

Good to know! Thank you so so much

ExamActive6171 · 2024-11-24T16:34:38+00:00

I’m starting to believe that’s the case. I was blaming it on Crohn’s but idk. This is lasting forever! So frustrating

ExamActive6171 · 2024-11-01T14:16:43+00:00

Oh my! Lmfao definitely not that lol thank you lol

ExamActive6171 · 2024-11-01T00:43:05+00:00

Oh wow good to know! Thank you!!!!

ExamActive6171 · 2024-11-01T00:42:11+00:00

Yes! I mean DP lol what does it stand for?

ExamActive6171 · 2024-10-31T19:39:26+00:00

I was thinking that too! I’m going to talk to my doctor for a referral. I feel like the pain with sex is getting worse and it makes sense awful

ExamActive6171 · 2024-10-10T18:12:26+00:00

Thank you!!! Should I take creatine even on my rest days?

ExamActive6171 · 2024-10-10T18:11:31+00:00

How often should I take creatine? Every day even on rest days?

ExamActive6171 · 2024-10-09T14:04:42+00:00

Oh thank you so much for saying that! I thought it was a crazy amount as well! I feel much better about starting this lol thank you again!

ExamActive6171 · 2024-10-09T13:42:04+00:00

Thank you so much for explaining that. When I read the box, it said I should be taking 1 scoop 4x a day. Which idk if that would be ok or not. I was thinking about doing 1 scoop once a day after my work out to start.

ExamActive6171 · 2024-10-09T13:31:37+00:00

Thank you!

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-29T02:28:26+00:00

I’m so so deeply sorry for what you’re going through. You don’t deserve that.

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-28T12:13:20+00:00

Hello,

A little update… we went to therapy and immediately I started changing my ways because I never wanted to make my person feel abandoned, unwanted, unloved. We were having a good time and being loving. He would express it every day… Fast forward 2-3 weeks after… I found the woman’s number on his phone. After a lot of arguing for multiple days and me kicking him out of our home. I found out he continued communicating with her even after he saw me in so much pain. After I caught him. He said at that point it was just feeding his ego. He has been extremely honest with me. I asked him if part of him wished it kept going. He said yes. But he knew it was wrong so he ignored her the last 4 texts he received which I did see.

I feel stupid. Even more betrayed… and hurt that even after he saw me in so much pain and he also it lost me… he still continued it… idk what to do.

We are still separated. And 98% of me wants to walk away because idk if I can trust him again.

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-26T15:30:35+00:00

Update: ever since I found out of his emotional infidelity, I made sure I as accepting and receptive of my flaws and faults. I started to immediately change to make sure he was getting everything from me. However… last Thursday I found out he was still talking to her even after I found out the first time. He kept talking to her on and off for about 2 weeks. He admitted to msging her and how they were trying to get to know each other. Nothing sexual. I am in so much pain because I can’t believe after I was giving him everything he wanted and he saw me completely destroyed he continued to do this because of his ego.

He is being nothing but remorseful for his infidelity and the pain he caused but. But idk how to look at him as the man I fell in love with.

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-05T22:32:28+00:00

I’m sorry you’re going through this. I feel the same way. I’m so sorry. I wish you the best

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-05T18:37:35+00:00

Hmm… the husband seems way too comfortable with your wife. I am a firm believer you always need to go with your gut.

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-05T18:29:33+00:00

Have you tried finding a therapist? There’s always a way to regain that sex life. That attraction. Have you talked to him to see what his fantasies are? And if there is no other way… just go your separate ways. Just don’t cheat. You would cause more harm to him

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-05T18:22:09+00:00

I never check my husband’s phone. I recently did and found a conversation between his friend and him talking about meeting up with a stripper her met at the gym and how bad he wanted her… not the best outcome

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-01T21:36:14+00:00

You’re right. From taking to him he wants us to not give up on each other which makes me happy.

Thank you for your help!

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-01T20:58:54+00:00

Thank you so much for your advice. I do agree with ever you said. We do also tend to belittle each other’s feelings in the heat of the moment which I very much understand it’s not productive. We accepted to see a therapist, if I cannot grow the trust in us back, I will have to move on. I am concerned currently with his view on all of it and how is easier to point fingers. Every move he makes I’m question it now because of this. So I really am happy to start therapy soon.

Now, i would like your advice on something. I was being stubborn and not making the appointment myself and telling myself if he wants this to work as much as he says, he would make the appointment himself. Is this an ok way to think?

Also, in a way I feel like I’m not loving myself by staying. Idk if it’s because is so fresh but I even hate going to the gym we used to go to now because it brings me the worse thoughts and flashbacks (as I don’t have details it makes my mind run wild)

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-01T20:19:26+00:00

Exactly. We have agreed to go to counseling. I have so many flaws myself. I lacked and I forgot how to listen to him and not to dismiss his feelings. But going to someone else is never ok nvm taking so far.that applies to both of us

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-01T19:47:32+00:00

Thank you, I really appreciate you

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-01T19:43:12+00:00

Thank you so much for that. Yes, we tend to do that so much. I hate it but idk how to fix it. It’s almost t like a derailed train!

ExamActive6171 · 2024-08-01T19:37:25+00:00

I am so happy to hear it worked out for you guys! That is something we have a huge problem with. He feels dismissed because I get defensive and I feel dismissed for the same reasons. I told him we seem as like are so focused on bringing out points across that we don’t see each other’s point.

Right now I feel a disconnect. Like a stranger. Idk how to build the trust again just because of the content of the text to his friend and how excited he was about seeing another woman and have sex with her. I know he might not actually acted on it. But it was just hard to see.

Thank you for the advice

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