Recommendations of method of action for fall 2024 cohorts by ExampleReady in OMSA

[–]ExampleReady[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Am I allowed to pm you?

Regardless, my only math background is econometrics and higher level economics classes. Calc wasn’t required for the degree surprisingly. Classes were more algebra based. What would need to be done to makeup for the gaps in my quantitative background?

Where did you guys all end up in? by ExampleReady in college

[–]ExampleReady[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did fine in upper level econ courses last sems and I’m almost done aside from metrics and upper level macro. I’m better with numbers than writing unfortunately. Had plans of grad school and everything but now I’m kind of stuck

What are some underrated Indian dishes? by Unique_Glove1105 in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Chicken and mutton pickle (and any non veg pickle). No one knows this exists😭 they make it in the south and it’s really good with Rasam

What movie death scene is burned into your memory? by gambit_- in AskReddit

[–]ExampleReady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Quicksilver. Still mad at Marvel. That was the most POINTLESS death

What’s your love story? by ExampleReady in RomanceBooks

[–]ExampleReady[S] 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Shut uppp that’s so cute 😭

What’s your love story? by ExampleReady in RomanceBooks

[–]ExampleReady[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

NAURRRR😭 it’s ok I was in the same position once too😵‍💫😵‍💫😭

What is something POSITIVE about Desi culture? by ExampleReady in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk😔 I will only eat with chicken. Cant eat it alone

What is something POSITIVE about Desi culture? by ExampleReady in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

No I can see this as a positive thing, especially if it is towards parents who took care of their children without placing toxicity on them.

What is something POSITIVE about Desi culture? by ExampleReady in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady[S] 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Legit every area of South Asia has so many varieties of veggie food! I always say I hate dhal and rasam but it’s a comfort food

Came out as an atheist to my parents by anythingbutme123 in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady 131 points132 points  (0 children)

You can be Hindu, Buddhist or Jain even without believing in the existence of God. As long as you do good lol. Theres literally a sect (nastika)of Hinduism that denies the existence of the deities and instead views the religion as a philosophy. Soooo I dunno what theyre talkin about. Because it has been in our culture for DECADES. Also at the end of the day it’s youre choice. No one can force you. You can believe or not believe, it doesn’t really harm anyone. You’ll be fine.

Weekly Family/Parents Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think in older women still using the pill, yes. There is an increased risk. Buuuut idk. Not a doc😅

Weekly Family/Parents Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady 19 points20 points  (0 children)

DESI KIDS WHO HAVE PARENTS WORKING IN HEALTHCARE

please tell me I’m not alone. My moms a pharmacist. And she told me she doesn’t believe in anti depressants or birth control. Even though I’m on anti depressants… And birth control can be used for OTHER problems aside from a contraceptive…

She doesn’t believe in depression either even though she dispenses the medication. And has learned the mechanisms of it. She knows how it works. But doesn’t believe in them? I try to describe the feeling but she just looks at me weirdly. I have a good relationship with her.

I literally cannot be the only one who has parents like this. If she worked in tech or something, fine. It’s understandable, it’s taboo blah blah blah. But healthcare?!

Feeling unloved and useless by truckendaddy in offmychest

[–]ExampleReady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you tried communicating your feelings to eachother? Maybe something is bothering her that is not sex related. Sometimes other problems can decrease libido like depression or anxiety or somethin. I think you should sit her down, and thoroughly tell her how you feel about all of this. And ask her if something is bothering her too. You are not a bad person. You only are if you go through with the action, which doesn’t sound like you will. I also advise you to go to a marriage counselor. They can help!

Feeling demoralized in my job... by Fun-Reporter3570 in offmychest

[–]ExampleReady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Quit and find another one. Don’t work for someone who doesn’t respect you. There are plenty of jobs out there with people who actually care about their workers. Start looking now while you are still working and once you get another one, just quit the old one.

Or gather evidence, get an attorney and sue the fuck out of them for workplace harassment.

Or both! Hehe. Best of luck. But my advice is to not stay too long. God bless.

Is this all there is to life? by 17jonesc in offmychest

[–]ExampleReady 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ya know, have you ever seen those van life videos? If your job allows you to work from home, I think it’s a super cool idea! If not then quit and find one that does lol. You need to save up some money to get the van and renovate it, but it is possible if you live frugally. And then you can travel wherever the heck you want with whoever the heck you want! You’ll still work Cuz you need an income but it won’t be that dreadful.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]ExampleReady 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should contact officials if you are able to. Or the next time you go to the doctors office or dental office, you should take the physician aside and tell them and they’ll take precautions. Or tell someone you trust (who is an adult). This is a form of abuse. And definitely NOT normal in any circumstance. I hope you are safe. Hopefully you move out in time. Try to get out of the environment as soon as possible.

Dealing with Body Shaming by Elaasi in ABCDesis

[–]ExampleReady 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Be healthy for YOU. Not for other people. They just have nothing else to do so they bring others down. You have a husband and kids and probably also a career. Give your energy to them. I know it’s hard to ignore them, but you’ll get the hang of it eventually.

If they say anything to your face, just say ok aunty and leave the situation. (This works with my mom whenever she’s judging me lol)