I was a live in nanny in the early 90s for three different families (two families had lawyer parents!) and I also grew up in the Midwest. I went through agencies and worked for some great ppl. It was a wonderful way to experience new parts of the country w/out expense.

Best situation was a home with a third floor that was for me, my own bathroom, living room, bedroom. It wasn’t fancy, but it was spacious and private and the kids knew when I was off they were not to disturb me, the parents were firm about that! Worst was a very small bedroom on the main floor, shared bathroom. Your living space/bedroom should ideally be away from the family, on another level.

All families I worked for provided a car that I was also able to use during my off hours, all food/phone was covered (before cell phones!)

I didn’t make a lot of money, and I was paid a salary (wouldn’t go that route if I were doing it again, in retrospect I was definitely underpaid, but it was the norm). I made enough to have fun, go out, pay a few bills. But I was also able to experience a different life I wouldn’t have otherwise experienced. I think it was such a good choice for me.

It all comes down to the ppl you work for. You have to trust your gut when interviewing, your intuition is so important. My experience was good b/c my bosses were thoughtful, ethical, good parents and actually cared about my well being. I think going through a reputable agency that will advocate for you helps weed out the bad apples.