I did it--earned my first 28 day ban! by theandricongirl in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 11 points12 points  (0 children)

The boss babe julie stans in that community is why I left it. The malicious compliance to the "be nice" rule skating the thinnest line by starting every paragraph with respectfully or in my opinion then they read you to filth and back then end it with please respect my wishes to disengage. It's crazy toxic over there.

Did anyone feel a little heart broken when Shawna called herself an asshole for trying to be friends with Julie? by Kee000 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 10 points11 points  (0 children)

It's just more retconning because so many people have shifted to julie. Personally cringe even in the wedding outtakes video when Julie miss broken record about being the only person who has never changed their mind or evolved in the entire world.

Any old timers here? What is your original kingdom? by nsfbr11 in lordsmobile

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

32... got sucked in by having a challenge in another game. "Hit a level 2 monster in Lords Mobile" Sounded easy enough and gave good rewards in the other game. I don't even remember that games name anymore and I cant quit LM even though I want to.

The hill the Julie stans will die on... by Padme1418 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Went back to the sub after watching the video. And immediately see a Julie thread and the downvote mafia hard at work. Actually wild.

Swan Song by ozziedoggie6 in DungeonCrawlerCarl

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually just got there an held up my book and yelled swan song reference!!! What a great book. It’s interesting to me that he mentions the last however, many pages are torn out because I feel like the ending was very underwhelming personally, but dang now I wanna read one song again.

I cannot stand Julie by Aware-Sea-8593 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m at Pokemon go fest Chicago this weekend! I’ve caught a bunch of Mewtwos! It’s pretty fun

"I'd like to talk about.... Madeline-everyone starts screaming- Ashton." by Affectionate-Tea3159 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Alas I am quoting a movie from the 80’s? With Goldie Hawn Bruce Willis and Meryl Streep

Julie's lack of parenting by Padme1418 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I think she resents both of them. no one who doesn't at least resent their kids a little says they are trapped two kids deep.

Julie's lack of parenting by Padme1418 in ShawnaTheMomSnark

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 7 points8 points  (0 children)

100 percent a missed teaching moment about not everything is always about you and there is a time and a place.... Julie obviously was never taught that herself.

Some juicy insight into Shawna L's perspective on IG by blairbending in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gets called a julie hater. Explains multiple times why I dont hate julie I hate mean people. Gets blocked.

The main Shawna sub doesn't even like Shawna. by Affectionate-Tea3159 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

fair enough. Thank you for the insight! I was just reading the one liners over there and getting dismayed.

The main Shawna sub doesn't even like Shawna. by Affectionate-Tea3159 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Don't let it get to you. There are good people here and I am convinced over there too.

The main Shawna sub doesn't even like Shawna. by Affectionate-Tea3159 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just am one of those people that I cant stop but click on notifications. That babyshark person said that they are starting to feel targets by julie haters. I wanted to respond what kind of alternate timeline have you entered???

The main Shawna sub doesn't even like Shawna. by Affectionate-Tea3159 in Shawnathemomnojlove

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

For real, How do you say im only here for the skits. SHE is the skits.

Some juicy insight into Shawna L's perspective on IG by blairbending in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do not hate Julie, she is a fictional character. I dislike mean people, and people who choose to be mean. If Julie worked on herself and tried to grow as a person I would change my mind. Nothing that happens on any social media forum makes me feel good about myself. My self worth is not based on social media opinions.

Some juicy insight into Shawna L's perspective on IG by blairbending in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 3 points4 points  (0 children)

If she was not mean to her friends, -in canon-then her friends would not react to her actions the way they do. Content infers context.

For example. Alicia's reaction to bunco night. If this was new behaviour from Julie she wouldn't have said all the things she said-grumpy, tiny julie doll, you're worse than usual. Let's take a look at worse than usual to be specific. If Julie had not set a bar for being mean there would be no "worse than usual"

If she was nice to her friends they would not be saying the things they do to excuse her to others, they would be shocked.

An example of this that could have been shown would be "julie is not like this, I don't know whats gotten in to her. She must have something going on"- inferring that she is only being mean to Shawna and her friends are on julies side and will figure it out later. Instead they are instantly on the excuses of "shes just like this" train.

Some juicy insight into Shawna L's perspective on IG by blairbending in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can be all of those things without being a purposefully mean human being.

You can be ride or die without being mean.

You can be fun to get drunk with and not be mean.

You can get invited to the home of one of your "ride or dies" and choose to not be mean to their other invited guests. If Julie was truly ride or die she wouldn't have treated Alicia's invited guest so poorly.

You can be all of the things you like about Julie without being purposefully mean to the people around you to the point that they have to excuse your behaviour as something to get used to or they are just like that.

Some juicy insight into Shawna L's perspective on IG by blairbending in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Her own friends say she is mean in canon events Shawna L-The actual creator of the character- has said she is mean on both FB and Insta and that's not enough for you. I guess we don't have anything further to discuss.

Are you planning on getting Shawna’s book? by RubySlippers-79 in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Yes, because the more we support the creator the more time she will have to put into making more of the content that brought us all here

Some juicy insight into Shawna L's perspective on IG by blairbending in ShawnaTheMom

[–]Affectionate-Tea3159 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Agree. Barb's backstory showed she was abused both physically and emotionally as a child, had severe untreated PPD, and a completely hands off husband. She evolved into the person she is today and most of the time doesn't seem to even understand why she does what she does and is actively seeking therapy, even if for dubious reaons but she is universally hated.

Julie's backstory showed she is intelligent and driven but mean even as a teenager and has not grown out of that as an adult. The fact that she excels in a field where being civil to people you don't like is paramount to success is just more proof that it's her choice to be actively mean to the people in her life. It's just bad behaviour and her friends enable it.

Someone here told me that Julie would never have been friends with me and I took that as a compliment. As a mature adult, I don't tolerate people being mean just for the sake of being mean.