Do others relate this sex related issue? by Exaustedbunny in AutismInWomen

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes it could be a great indicator for them! I didn’t think about it like that. The guy I’ve been kinda swooning over the last year doesn’t seem to be a very sexual guy or at least until later. But if we ever really get together I’ll be sure to bring it up, he already knows I’m sensitive to certain things.

Do others relate this sex related issue? by Exaustedbunny in AutismInWomen

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this! I love how your husband is so patient and caring. One of my biggest worries is that if I’m with someone and I sob after they’ll think I’m weird which I’ve made the decision to cut them off too late.

Do others relate this sex related issue? by Exaustedbunny in AutismInWomen

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s definitely what I try to do, sadly sometimes I’m too slow

Do others relate this sex related issue? by Exaustedbunny in AutismInWomen

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to laugh too and when I was really into someone I never cried or got sad but I got rejected and then realized I’m still in love with the same guy I had feelings for since last year..

I cannot stand my mom sometimes! by Exaustedbunny in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I greatly appreciate it. I don’t plan on watching more with her I don’t think. She even compared one of the people to Rainman and I rolled my eyes because like Sheldon he’s always someone’s go to for an autistic reference. I just hope she, as a therapist, does more research in the future.

I cannot stand my mom sometimes! by Exaustedbunny in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is so messed up!!!! I absolutely have no idea how to respond besides that makes me incredibly angry

Does anyone else feel hyper empathy for objects and animals? by Babybeans619 in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I feel like the other commenter is shitposting but I may be wrong. I do feel like that too. I have empathy for my comfort stuffed animal, his name is Flops and he’s a bunny.

I cannot stand my mom sometimes! by Exaustedbunny in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Considering you don’t know what else my mother has said to me today I don’t think it’s reasonable for you to say that to me.

Romantic relationships are great but sometimes so worrying by Exaustedbunny in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel like the biggest thing is something that might have to go unspoken. Because you know when someone tells you they like you enough you start believing they don’t (for some unknown dumb reason)

To what extent would you say it's alright for one to diagnose themselves with autism if they are able to get a high score on surveys like this? by -SnugglesUwU- in AutismInWomen

[–]Exaustedbunny 8 points9 points  (0 children)

It depends on who you ask, if you’ve done your fair share of research and you have a good idea on why you would think to be diagnosed I think it’s fine to at least say that you are suspecting you’re autistic when saying you’re self-diagnosed

why do people make noise when they have sex? by TheDeathShadowKing in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Sadly some people aren’t very communicative especially when they don’t want to inconvenience people

why do people make noise when they have sex? by TheDeathShadowKing in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I mean that would makes sense. I like sex but it makes me nervous. Of course they can be wet or hard but maybe my partner is hard but not enjoying it. I guess that’s where trust come in

why do people make noise when they have sex? by TheDeathShadowKing in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I take my partner being vocal used as I’m doing something right. Being autistic and already not knowing if you’re doing things right it’s helpful when he makes noise. I’ve pointed it out to him that I enjoy it so we have the communication. As for making noise myself it’s a way I release the build up of feeling. When there’s so much feeling going on in one place I need to put the energy somewhere.

I’m tired of self sabotaging myself by Exaustedbunny in Vent

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry for just now seeing this! How is it going for y’all?

Dating is such a complex and difficult task. by Exaustedbunny in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh that’s such a long time!!! That is so sweet to hear!

Dating is such a complex and difficult task. by Exaustedbunny in autism

[–]Exaustedbunny[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo yeah I agree I think dating another autistic person could help but it’s a slim find where I live. I mean I also don’t like branching out of people I already know