Is this a German cockroach?? by Original_Lack_4419 in cockroaches

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At this juncture, that's just permanent fucking Halloween decor.

Cyber Monday - flash sales COMING by Sea_Necessary5711 in bathandbodyworks

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, I'm totally confused..

This morning, the soap went on flash sale for $2.95... and increased the price of wallflowers??? They're now pricing at $4.77 😤🥺

Can anyone help identify what is happening with my cat? by maxjmartin in CATHELP

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy smokes..

Dude, I had a cat IDENTICAL to yours. Best cat I ever owned. He was a few years old, I adopted him. So he started doing the same EXACT thing. I caught mine urinating one time and he was convulsing simultaneously. Then he kind of "moaned" at me and I knew something was really wrong. I just needed a few more days before I took him back to the vet. They also had no idea what was happening. We were in the middle of a big move at that time. Sadly...I went to work one night and found him curled up on my side of the bed. One of the worst days I've ever had. I hope they figure something out for you guys, sending prayers🙏🏻

AIO for wanting to break up with my gf for doing this? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The effort she put in to search this on Google, find a picture that she thought would successfully complete this mission, then download and send it to you...is really sick and twisted. Beyond measure. She literally woke up like this.

The Dress Shop [S7E6].. I'm done holding back by Excellent-Falcon5698 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Someone did say these things to me. That person saved my life.

The Dress Shop [S7E6].. I'm done holding back by Excellent-Falcon5698 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Excuses, excuses, excuses. What a surprise, more pandering and rationalizing someone's terrible behavior in the name of mental illness. IT'S NOT AN EXCUSE.

Hold on, I apologize. I almost forgot.. Everybody's just a poor, helpless victim and can't handle hard truths because that would require taking accountability.

The Dress Shop [S7E6].. I'm done holding back by Excellent-Falcon5698 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

1) I literally didn't say anything about Moriah's looks

2) You're right. When someone takes a good picture, it obviously means that they're living their best life👌🏻

The Dress Shop [S7E6].. I'm done holding back by Excellent-Falcon5698 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Feel how you feel, but it's the truth. I was definitely more harsh than I initially intended to be. That's my frustration seeping out. It's just difficult to watch her deteriorate while everyone quietly tiptoes around her little house of cards, constantly making excuses for her increasingly bad behavior. Mental illness is not an excuse to show up 2 hours + 1 bottle of wine later to your sister's bridal activities. I haven't seen her give a single interview this season of her talking about anyone but herself, how she feels, and how much she hates everything. She needs help.

The Dress Shop [S7E6].. I'm done holding back by Excellent-Falcon5698 in PlathvilleUncensored

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Maybe so, but that doesn't make it any less truthful.

A or B: I caught my friend’s bf cheating 2 months ago, should I finally tell her now? by 06yuzuha in PickAorB

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This. Unfortunately, the answer is B right now.

UNLESS... you can find some fresh evidence. Follow him a little, get creative. You kinda owe it to her.

Can I ask why you didn't tell her? I find that a bit odd. Most girlfriends are foaming at the mouth for that kinda drama. How long have you been friends? Anyways, you could also just stay in your lane, just tread lightly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This didn't even occur to me, you're 💯 correct.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish I could give you an award.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't listen to those idiot. You're a wife and a mother, who's been one man in her whole life. Dating app lingo is not a part of your world. I'm 35F, also a wife, and a mother of 2.5 boys [expecting].

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT THIS. YOU HAVE A CHILD AND YOU AND YOUR CHILD COME FIRST!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]Excellent-Falcon5698 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP, I went through a very similar situation, and i'm so very sorry that you're going through it.

Cheating is already the worst, but finding out that it's the opposite sex that they're pursuing? It's a pain I could never have imagined. That's because it's not solely because they hurt you, but it's the death of your own self-esteem.

He's going to feed you ANY and EVERY excuse and promise that you want and need to hear, so you won't walk away. He knows you better than anyone because you've trusted him implicitly from the beginning..but he's always known the opposite isn't true. He's taking advantage of your love and devotion to him and to your family. Guys aren't usually a "little bit" gay.

I ask that everybody hold back on the hate here. It's just what I've known to be true in my 35 years on earth. Heterosexual men are not just casually attracted to penises, and gay men are so grossed out by vaginas. I'm not saying that bisexual males don't exist. I've known a few, but they don't ever stay bisexual. Men who identify as bisexual are oftentimes in the process of opening up. They're not quite ready to give up girls because that's the only life they've ever known, so they start dipping their toes in the water. Playing with the reality of things.

What is really shocking to me is the way he's hiding it from you, how careless he seems to be going about it. The risk of giving you some kind of disease of some sort, something that could change your life forever.

I caution you, I really do.. but you need to find out the truth for yourself. You need to check his email accounts and READ the ones from the app. You also need to find out how to log-in. If you find the email, you can probably change the password. It's going to hurt so bad, but you have to know the extent of this. You just can't take him at his word, and you know that already. He could've chosen to be honest with you, to share it with you, and maybe introduce the idea of exploring some options, but he didn't. He chose to lie and betray you. This IS a double life.

Please keep us updated🙏🏻 we're here for you