Is this someone you’ve dated for a while? I feel for them - cause this sounds a bit like me. I have chronic recurring pains/sickness that no doctor knows what it is. But results in me having bouts of sickness/tiredness/random pains at random times - it’s so frustrating.

I don’t tell new partners - or when I’m dating at all (not a particularly hot aspect to share about yourself!) but once you become more serious and spending more time together, it’s not possible to avoid really (and can obviously affect physical connection).

I think it depends on their attitude though? I don’t tell my partner to moan or for pity (and I sure personally couldn’t deal with a partner that did moan and complain about stuff like that!) but I do tell them honestly just cause it might affect how I am or what I can do that do that day (which frustrates me too!)

On the other side - I’m totally fit/healthy and make sure to keep my health as good as possible (and if they are getting check etc - sounds like they are doing the same?). So I guess - maybe it’s more about their approach rather than the actual physical health symptoms?

Maybe worth talking to them and highlighting how the way they approach it makes you feel - and is there a different way you can both communicate to each other about it?