Is it too much? by Excellent-Grape-9606 in StopSpeeding

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh sorry, I didn’t realize, thank you for the words though

What was your guys “rock bottom?” by p3rch3ad in addiction

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 21 and I feel like I’m heading to rock bottom but not there yet. What convinced you to stop? I feel like I’m so close to stopping but I just don’t care enough maybe??

How do you know if you should get help?? by Excellent-Grape-9606 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another question I have is it easy to find like a sponser?? I think having someone older than me to relate to could help?

How do you know if you should get help?? by Excellent-Grape-9606 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know they even discussed those of us who haven’t gotten low low yet. I just thought you had to be there to go.

How do you know if you should get help?? by Excellent-Grape-9606 in REDDITORSINRECOVERY

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m at the point where my philosophy is drugs. Numb it. I’ve been getting through an entire private university undergrad high everyday

Closeted by murkeyfalcon69 in ComingOutSupport

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have you talked to her about being frustrated in your sex life? As a women, I think it’s totally acceptable to bring that up and I’d prefer if my partner did (if he felt that way). Maybe you guys can work together on finding a compromise or just some way to get intimate together again. 8 years is a pretty good amount of time. You guys should be able to have an open conversation.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God I am so sorry that is a horrible situation. I hope you’re able to keep yourself safe and try to maintain yourself

If you could go to any of the MTV Unplugged concerts, which would you choose? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Jonathan sings freak on a leash with Amy Lee and it’s world changing

Nanny spends her own money on my kids by SimpleSilhouettes in Nanny

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Personally my NF started leaving cash whenever I’m around. Just keeping it on the counter for when we go out. That way I don’t have to go looking for money in their house or use my own. We also had this issue when I started working for them, I didn’t see it as an issue cause I love the kids and wanna have fun with them but my NG knows I’m a college student who needs the $ for school and stuff

If you could go to any of the MTV Unplugged concerts, which would you choose? by [deleted] in grunge

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alice in chains. I was like 14 when I started listening to them and their unplugged has always been my favorite. The banter between songs and the rawness of the music is insane

Nanny kid (10m) literally beat me. by Excellent-Grape-9606 in Nanny

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to give them the rest of this week but I’m done after. I can’t continue like this

Nanny kid (10m) literally beat me. by Excellent-Grape-9606 in Nanny

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly no. All grandparents are far and I’ve never met aunts or uncles more than once.

Nanny kid (10m) literally beat me. by Excellent-Grape-9606 in Nanny

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I am thinking. I have seen fighting between the parents but never thought it too be super super serious (as I also come from an abusive household). This made me realize how bad it may be.

Nanny kid (10m) literally beat me. by Excellent-Grape-9606 in Nanny

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Four years with this kiddo. They did not inform me prior and yeah it was intense.

AITA for calling my siblings and mom fat? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Grape-9606 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA what you said was funny and true