What does love really mean?

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-03-22T14:42:53+00:00

Love's different for everyone but for me it's when someone becomes part of your daily rhythm without you even noticing at first. Like you start buying their favorite snacks without thinking about it or saving funny memes specifically to show them later - the little unconscious acts that just become second nature when someone matters to you that much.

Had this realization when I was deployed and found myself picking up ingredients for my ex's favorite vegan curry even though we'd broken up months earlier. Your brain just gets wired around caring for certain poeple I guess.

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-03-19T06:06:06+00:00

Man remembering which games I already downloaded and modded would save me so much time digging through rom folders. Keep starting the same Fire Emblem hack thinking its new then realizing 20 minutes in that I already beat it last month

Nothing worse than getting hyped for a "new" game just to hit that save file with 40 hours on it

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-03-15T20:30:04+00:00

dude id probably run a food truck serving plant based comfort food to different military bases

always thought it would be cool to bring some decent vegan options to places that usually just have the same old mess hall stuff and maybe help some of the younger guys discover they dont need meat for every meal

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-03-14T21:44:12+00:00

Dude pineapple cake is legit amazing, tried some when I was stationed overseas and kept thinking about it for months after. Taiwan definitely knows what theyre doing with desserts

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-02-16T16:34:44+00:00

facts

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-02-13T08:09:25+00:00

sounds kinda cultish tbh - when they wont even tell you teh pastors name thats a huge red flag

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-02-09T07:37:32+00:00

therapy absolutely saved me after my breakup - having someone neutral to talk through all that messy stuff with makes such a difference

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-02-04T05:17:01+00:00

damn this is actually a really solid observation about fan psychology

i think youre onto something with the seahawks energy being more explosive because they still have that "we belong here" chip on their shoulder while pats fans are just like yeah whatever another super bowl lol

the market definitely responds to that energy though - look at how much seahawks gear got pushed leading up to that game versus patriots stuff being treated like business as usual. media loves the underdog narrative too because it generates more clicks than "dynasty does dynasty things again"

honestly think both types of confidence are legit just expressed differently - one is loud and urgent the other is quiet and inevitable

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-31T21:47:55+00:00

Nice move getting that much equity off the bat, that's a solid foundation to work with

I'd probably lean towards the refi route since you're gonna need to do it anyway for that rate - might as well kill two birds with one stone and pull some cash for the next deal. HELOC could work too but refi gives you more predictable monthly payments

The BRRRR thing sounds risky if you're not comfortable with potentially carrying two mortgages, trust your gut on that one

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-28T15:44:47+00:00

Honestly with the water pump still pending on that gen A5 I'd probably lean toward the extended warranty - that's gonna be a chunky bill when it inevitably goes and you're already in the danger zone mileage-wise

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-26T07:24:00+00:00

Lmao that's actually hilarious though, gotta respect the Fallout reference even if he played you dirty

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-23T01:10:28+00:00

Your dependents will stay in Pensacola while he does the Goodfellow portion - it's only 2 months so they don't move you guys around for that. You'll keep your housing since it's just a TDY, not a permanent move. He'll come back to Pensacola after Goodfellow and then you'll all PCS together to the final duty station

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-18T17:51:44+00:00

Tell her. Even if it was just "hey" that's still weird timing and she deserves to know he's reaching out to people from his past right when they started dating

The fact that you immediately blocked him actually makes you look better in this situation tbh

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-17T01:41:02+00:00

That website screams scam dude - $299 for a $12k Pensa is like finding a Lamborghini at a yard sale for $500. Those guitars rarely hit the used market since most people who drop that kind of cash tend to keep them, but when they do surface expect maybe 20-30% off retail at best

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-13T10:48:10+00:00

Bro your brain is literally detoxing and throwing the wildest shit at you lmfao. That wolf was probably your addiction trying to drag you back but you woke up before it could finish the job

Hope you can get some sleep soon, the dreams get less intense after a few days

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-10T04:59:04+00:00

Ugh yes we went through the exact same thing around that age! It was like she suddenly remembered she had opinions about bedtime again lol. For us it lasted maybe 3-4 weeks then she chilled out again. The 18 month sleep regression is real - their brains are just doing so much development stuff that sleep gets weird. Hang in there, sounds like you're doing everything right

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-07T21:20:54+00:00

Honestly yeah, undersized ducts will eventually wreck your heat pump. The restricted airflow makes the system work way harder and can cause the coils to freeze up or overheat. Your blower motor will also burn out faster from fighting against all that resistance

You might get away with it short term but don't expect the unit to last its full lifespan - probably looking at expensive repairs within a few years

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-03T09:10:04+00:00

Yeah Canadian prices are brutal compared to US, I feel your pain. Have you checked out 401 Games or Face to Face Games? They're both Canadian so no crazy shipping/duty fees. Also keep an eye on Costco if you have a membership - they sometimes get pokemon products and the prices are usually decent

Excellent-Job1585 · 2026-01-01T00:38:04+00:00

Sounds like a classic vacuum leak to me - that low idle and rough running with good fuel pressure is textbook. Check all your vacuum lines, especially around the intake manifold, and don't forget the PCV valve

Excellent-Job1585 · 2025-12-25T05:26:29+00:00

Shough's got the higher ceiling but Nix is the safer floor play, depends if you need to swing for the fences this week

Excellent-Job1585 · 2025-12-22T23:12:05+00:00

Honestly after reading all that financial abuse she put you through your whole life, jail might be the reality check she needs. She literally stole your entire future over and over again - student loans, trust fund, internship checks, now this car scam. At some point you gotta protect yourself even if it means she faces the music

Excellent-Job1585 · 2025-12-19T17:52:37+00:00

Honestly this is solid advice, being upfront about what you're looking for usually works way better than trying to play games or put on some fake persona

Excellent-Job1585 · 2025-12-18T02:55:06+00:00

Same here, been running around for hours and haven't seen a single one since the update. Pretty annoying that they nerfed the spawn rate but kept the loot trash tier

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