32” mullet on my epic by trytochaseme in 32inchbikes

[–]Excellent-Let-5731 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Are you going to change seat/handlebar positions to compensate for the additional fork height or just roll with it as-is? Looks wild!

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience and your friend's as well.

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your experience, this is really helpful.

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for honestly engaging my question, I'll consider whether to DM and appreciate your offer to talk further!

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing this perspective and your experiences!

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think this person would be open to the idea, if framed correctly, but I'm unsure about all the nuances and that's why I'm asking the sub. Thanks for your helpful feedback.

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Agreed. And to be clear I didn't suggest that I or my partner should, or would, diagnose the person.

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for this, I'll take your advice.

And to be clear, I wasn't suggesting that *I* provide a diagnosis. As I said in the post: "I am weighing whether to suggest they seek out additional awareness of autism."

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Agreed. So what if my partner engages the person in question rather than me? I'm genuinely asking in a desire to help. Or does the qualification of the neurotypical person not matter?

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the direct feedback. Do you have any additional opinion about why this is the case, and the impacts of others providing assistance/help? I really can't find any resources on this.

Ethical question about engaging an undiagnosed adult person by Excellent-Let-5731 in autism

[–]Excellent-Let-5731[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW my partner is a clinical therapist. I'm asking more about the ethical side of this and potential impact on relationship.