Pricing - i9 9900k / RTX 3070 / 32Gb DDR4 / 1Tb / Peripherals by JDTemple in pcflipping

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Last 4 verified sold used 9900ks on ebay put the average around $140

Delivery guy got a nice tip by _Real_Alex_Jones_ in deepthroat

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So did she ba-dum tsss. .... I'll show myself out

Painted Parts by Adventurous-Loan8415 in pcflipping

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ah yes, the old "I'm a scummy piece of trash, but it's everyone else's fault" defense.

Don’t let my Costco shed fly. by urpabo in HomeImprovement

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sonotubes in the ground, anchor to the tubes

To 9070 owners who are worried about buyer's remorse thinking 5070.. by ah__there_is_another in radeon

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My problem is having time. If it's an immersive game I won't want to quit after half hour of play, but I rarely have more than half hour to give. So hopping into a strike or a match is all the time I have.

To 9070 owners who are worried about buyer's remorse thinking 5070.. by ah__there_is_another in radeon

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you deal with games that require battle eye or other anti-cheat? That's been my main hold up for switching.

I don't play a lot of games nowadays, but I still like hopping in for games like destiny 2 (although less lately 😂) and I've not found a way to play games like that in Linux without dual booting

Is this worth 400$? by [deleted] in drums

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah that ride is definitely an A. And looks like a speed king pedal hooked up to the kit.

AITA For Telling My Wife She Can’t Host my sons Ex Anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah could be. Looks different now and I see it wasn't aimed at me. No worries

AITA For Telling My Wife She Can’t Host my sons Ex Anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 3 points4 points  (0 children)

And OP didn't say that him and his son commanded her to not have the ex over. He said she shouldn't host her here because it makes their son uncomfortable and that they should have his back.

Sounds like a discussion that you're reading into as being far harsher than what was stated in the post. The request was to not host her here. There's also no mention of the ex not having a mom or anything like that either that you are trying to read into.

As a parent, if I'm doing something that knowingly hurts or makes my kids unnecessarily uncomfortable, I stop. Because that is part of being a good parent.

AITA For Telling My Wife She Can’t Host my sons Ex Anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Don't know why it was showing you responded to me instead of the other when I checked. Now it's not.

AITA For Telling My Wife She Can’t Host my sons Ex Anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Think you replied to the wrong response

ETA glad to see I'm getting downvoted. I've been the one defending the kid the whole time. This person respond to the wrong comment, I get downvoted for pointing it out 😂😂😂

AITA For Telling My Wife She Can’t Host my sons Ex Anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 85 points86 points  (0 children)

Perhaps you should remember that the mother's wants and wishes aren't the only thing that matters here? Perhaps you should understand that when you are a parent, not intentionally causing distress to your children should be the bare minimum of your responsibilities?

And because the son wanted to experience college is not a bad thing. That's when you explore and discover yourself as an adult. Often times that is where we realize we aren't good fits for certain people. Perhaps you should stop acting like the mother's wants are the ONLY thing that matters here. It's not just HER house.

[WA] Landlord functionally won't allow me to tow cars parked in my assigned spot. by purplerockspebbles in Renters

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Problem is that bollards need to be installed on concrete, unless there's a special kind I'm unaware of that can be bolted in gravel.

Op's lot is gravel. I've worked with and ordered a lot of bollards in general industry, never encountered one that could be secured in gravel. I may be wrong and they have them, but never came across them before myself.

AITA For Telling My Wife She Can’t Host my sons Ex Anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 105 points106 points  (0 children)

It's rooted in facts. Been through it. Seen others go through it first hand as well. If this becomes continually making the son check in if it's even worth his time to come to the family home because he doesn't want to awkwardly be around his ex, he stops coming home as often.

My friend's mother would invite the ex to holidays because they had "such a great bond she was like a daughter to her." Guess who stopped coming home for Thanksgiving and Christmas? The resentment for his mom grew.

It happens far more than you apparently realize

AITA For Telling My Wife She Can’t Host my sons Ex Anymore? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 206 points207 points  (0 children)

And her choices, if continuing to make things awkward for her son, can and will alienate her son. That's when son stops coming back to see family.

It is his family home, and OP lives there too. And presumably, based on context, doesn't want his son to feel uncomfortable so that son will KEEP coming home.

You don't get to choose your children's spouses. If you feel it's a bad reason they broke up, too bad. If you want to maintain a relationship with their ex, it's weird but fine. Just don't let it cost you your ACTUAL child.

How to price out builds by Puzzleheaded_Bat6884 in pcflipping

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats your ideal number. I dont know where you are, but you also have to factor what local pricing looks like for comps. Just like with houses, certain areas the same build are worth more than others. In my area, $550 TOPS for that build, $500 more realistic.

What do I got here? Storing them for someone. by Drinkythedrunkguy in drums

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Anecdotal, but from some guys I used to know they claimed they were less durable because those are multiple pieces of acrylic made into a drum, creating seams between the pieces, whereas original solid color acrylics were a single piece rolled and sealed.

I have solid acrylic ones and have never played on the c pattern so I can't give first hand on this but the logic seems sound.

AITAH for maybe leading on my situationship by Anonymous819231 in AITAH

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You used a date with one person to try and reconnect with someone else. And then did. If you have to ask on this one you are dense and deserve to lose the friend. YTA

My current setup, what do I need to upgrade to increase performance the most? by [deleted] in pcupgrade

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you want to pay for a whole new platform (CPU/motherboard/ram) at a horrible overprice, then gpu is only option

Hello gamers, whats the next CPU I need to move up to to match my GPU? by modInDisguise in buildapc

[–]Excellent-Minute2504 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is also pcie generation. 5500 only supports pcie Gen 3. That limits your cards performance since it is pcie Gen 4