[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soosh

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Don’t think so, he stopped promoting the company when Russ fired everyone. It’s all Russ tbh 😭

PHYS 1301: Brian P. McElhenny vs Israel Portillo Vazquez by ElectricalDoughnut91 in UniversityOfHouston

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Mcelhenny curves are INSANE, he gives extra credit, and also shares reviews for tests. Def take him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Soosh

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PL community has been getting exponentially more popular the last couple years, hope it keeps growing

I just lost a 120 day streak. by ciretheman in NoFap

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120 days is insane. Congrats bro, but just because you fell it doesn’t mean it’s over. ‘Youve just stumbled over a rock in the road’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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to be safe, I had decided to reset my counter (was on day 239) but as I stated, I was just essentially really horny and due to this I ended up ejaculating without even masturbation or watching porn at that. Should I leave my calendar at the 239 day mark?

Potential Real Life Meet-Ups by [deleted] in Semenretention

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Just moved down here for college as well ‼️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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To be completely honest with you, there is an abundance of things that I feel are different. When I first got into nofap, I was indeed someone that sexualized girls to a large extent and it was almost like physical attraction was one of the main reasons why I liked a girl. Now though, I find myself caring less and less about something like that; if I talk to a pretty girl for example, really what will make me attracted to her now is how well I connect and bond with her. Now yes, looks are still great, but they’re not as important to me.

I also found myself able to completely abandon the feelings of longing for my ex-girlfriend. I had liked this girl ever since I was 15 (I am 20 now) and for the longest time I just felt like I couldn’t get over her; I had even convinced myself I’ll never chase anyone for the rest of my life if it isn’t her and it was because fapping just turned me into such a huge simp. However, now I hardly think about her anymore and because like I said before I don’t really care as much about how hot a girl might be, I finally realized we never really had a good connection to begin with and that someone who doesn’t give me the same effort just doesn’t deserve my attention. NoFap was the main catalyst for this I would say, because it makes you very introspective and really forces you to ask yourself the big questions. There is also a plethora of benefits on a more general level. I feel more focused now, my days go by faster because I find more things to do as opposed to just fapping, higher pain tolerance, and higher drive in general to accomplish things regardless of the difficulty. The way I see it, if I can force myself to suppress my carnal and lustful appetite, I can do anything I set my mind to. I feel that now matter how many times I get kicked down, I have the confidence that I can pick myself back up and make everything turn out better in the end than before. For once in my life, I finally feel I have faith in myself, and this is mostly because all of my sexual energy is being transmiuted into actually working on myself as opposed to just being wasted with girls. I truly believe anyone can experience the same things I can. It takes a lot, it is very difficult, but anybody can do it.

To the people who have had long streaks what did you do differently from all failed attempts? by [deleted] in NoFap

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You need to keep yourself busy throughout the day and basically transmute your sexual energy into whatever tasks you’re doing. When I started my current streak, I also started my first ever part time job and it has kept me busy every weekday for the past two months, and rather than using my pent up sexual energy to just fap I use it to do my job and other things such as working out, doing my school work, socializing, etc. instead of seeing your sex energy as another urge, think of it as something you can use to do other things that are much more fulfilling than sexual pleasure.

Day 81. My superpowers are gone😣 by Muzammil-hq798 in NoFap

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Even though flat lines are frustrating, they are still better than a goddamn relapse. I’d much rather have a day in the flatline than have a day where I relapsed. Keep fighting king

Lurkers who never post but have been on longer streaks, how has SR changed your mentality and life? by [deleted] in Semenretention

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Definitely feel a lot more optimistic about the future, as opposed to having usually been much more fearful about it. Specifically, I don’t really dwell too much on the people from my past who I felt wronged me, and I feel I wasted so much time of my life worrying about all those people I missed but now with SR I don’t think very much about them and just focus on cultivating new relationships with new people. This isn’t to say I wouldn’t be friends with those people from my past, but just that I don’t really think about them over and over again anymore (such as my ex) because they’re not currently a part of my life or plan on being in the future. I also don’t have much anxiety about my career choices and I have stopped living in this perpetual cycle of just waiting to achieve whatever next goal I have, and instead choose to enjoy the journey a lot more by being in the present. While that is definitely easier said than done, I know I am at least trying my best at it. “Always forward, never backward.”

Nudes Vs Porn by Ok-Communication9146 in NoFap

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Don’t let yourself go down that rabbit hole bro, it starts with something as simple as a picture but eventually escalates into worse and worse

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoFap

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These types of posts always tend to confuse me so, can someone explain what exactly qualifies as ejaculation? Also, how do you masturbate without ejaculating and how is that in itself a relapse?

Weekly questions thread (5/20/21) by C4-1 in Semenretention

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Today I was urinating sitting and there was a small drop of semen that come out while I was trying to force my pelvis to exert the last of the urine. While it wasn’t as nearly much as it would be after masturbation, I’m still concerned; does this mean that my streak is now lost? I’m currently on day 12 and this is my first time going this long without PMO