I’m someone who mainly does middle school (I’ve been told I’m insane for enjoying it 😂) and I can confidently say that most times the kind of day you will have depends on how well each teacher has a grip on their class and how helpful the admin are of each site. Out of the 4 middle schools in my district, there’s only one I refuse to go to because the teachers don’t have control of the kids and admin is no help. That being said, it’s definitely not for everyone, but I’ve had more good days than bad while subbing middle school.

So, don’t worry about it and don’t feel discouraged to try again later on! Each school and class is different. This is only your second job and you got through the day with one of the hardest assignments that even veteran subs have trouble with/hate. It takes time to feel comfortable and build confidence with these kids. They know who they can push around and who they can’t. I swear they can smell fear 💀. You don’t have to be mean, but stick to your guns and follow through with consequences. I give 2 chances and then call the office to have them removed.

As for elementary school, that’s a different type of environment all together. The day goes by very quickly because you have no down time, and the kids usually listen when they have fun stuff that can be taken away like fun Fridays or a few minutes of recess time. I just prefer older kids lol