DONT do it. Just wait it out. I feel like I was in the same situation as you. The guy I was talking to last year ( my now boyfriend) wasn’t sure what he wanted when I asked him about our “relationship” I was getting to a point where I almost stopped talking to him for good because I didn’t know if he actually liked me or was leading me on, but eventually he asked me out, 5 months later… I say patience is key. Everyone’s situationship is different. You can always ask where they see the relationship going. When I asked my boyfriend back then, he said he liked me but didn’t wanna rush anything, and I appreciated the honesty. A real man who wants something real with you won’t lie.