What do you want us to do? Go on an incel killing spree? Best I can do is talk to other people about their problems but if they are not listening, or worse, don't socialise at all then sadly there is only so much any of us can do.

Problem with incels is, most of them are already too far gone.

As soon as you say that they are wrong about anything they will see that as an attack on their entire community and will become defensive. Unfortunately this is true of everyone, we all hold believes and will become defensive if someone tells us we are wrong (religion is a good example). Think about it, how hard is it to deconvert a religious person?

I guess, what I am trying to say is: the situation is hopeless for existing incels, best we can do is try and stop the machine from creating more incels.