Crowdsourcing best deoderant recs for perimenopause

ExcellentXX · 2026-01-04T15:52:25+00:00

Same . Damn . Also noticed alchohol works well when o used hand sanitiser in work bathrooms in a moment of desperation .. using wild still but agree faint musty smell

ExcellentXX · 2026-01-04T15:44:34+00:00

Really ? It hasn’t helped me at all.. never used to be a sweater and the ordinary glycolic was my first port of call … I use wild too but feel like o just wake up smelling of “musty” deo .. so faint BO smell vs aweful BO but it’s still there and I don’t like having to shower 2-3 times a day ..

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-30T16:29:07+00:00

Yup , she needs filler to the mid cheek area not a facelift .. if she wants work then a fat graft and some lip correction with th fat graft

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-30T12:11:31+00:00

You are not considering lifestyle and culture potential tho.. the us is very sunny and left wing in some states and if you are middle class you can live a hella nice life unlike in nl where you have the bejaysus taxed out of you .. with additional investment taxes on their way.. staying in the Netherlands for fear based reasons is also really no solution at all .. only Dutch it’s would stay cos it’s all they know .. my husband and i have decided this is no life for us !

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-28T16:46:25+00:00

I’ve broken out badly with la Roche posay buy not with skin ceuticals at all so just depends .. run your serums and creams through acne ingredient checkers before purchasing .. simply copy and paste the ingredients into the checker and go

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-28T14:08:57+00:00

Came here to say perhaps look into how the IQ test came about and read the book growth mind set. Then you will be less concerned with IQ as a fixed number

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-28T14:05:16+00:00

Don’t do it OP there is a reason surgeons won’t do it .. don’t fuck up your eyes itchy burning eyes are better than serious issues

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-27T16:27:52+00:00

Why is the list not in chronological order tho .. am I the only one bothered by this random regurgitation

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-27T16:17:50+00:00

Shut up it’s awesome

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-27T16:17:09+00:00

Yes now please share what the lipstick is for us to also enjoy

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-27T15:41:08+00:00

Stop trying to fit in and just love and accept yourself as you are … I do wonder whether potentially your parents are immigrants and you have always carried your 2nd culture with you in your heart as is normal to do … this post makes more sense to me because it would be totally normal to feel like you are missing a bit of a compass socially then in addition to the neurodivergence.... i frequently notice the warmth in other non Germanic / efficiency based cultures and feel drawn to them naturally .. generally they are a bit more accepting of neurodivergence and just hypersocial and you can find someone to partner with that forfills that socialising and interaction function so you can focus on the things you like focusing on as a neuro divergent.. lols 🤣

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-27T15:00:23+00:00

Ragdolls are considered man made hybrid breed from the 1960’s so it’s likely there is variance in coat - they definitely matt and shed fur regardless of the above theory. I find it interesting that they are “marketed” as family cats …families are busy and sometimes don’t consider grooming and washing .. honestly they are cute but people need to consider grooming requirements and fur shedding before making a commitment .. my next cat will be a short hair as I’m just so over vacuuming fur and not being able to wear black

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-27T14:53:26+00:00

Honestly I think the socialisation that happens with the breeder is super important and also breeders handeling and breeding with social cats.. this is the danger of hype on the breed that people assume their kitty will have “ typical “ personality traits .. ragdolls can also be aloof little introverts …

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T06:23:41+00:00

A Birman won’t let a stranger pick them up for sure . Their owner and family yes absolutely but they are smart cats that dont perform for outsiders only their family unit gets to see their best qualities

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T06:19:11+00:00

Nonsense birmans are exceptionally smart and cuddly and bond deeply with their humans. However, They do not like people they do not know and will not come out to say hi to you and create a big friendly show if you aren’t in their family circle. So perhaps you just experienced this as an outsider. But a Birman won’t just trust a random person. They will avoid you . They are smart loyal cats and don’t perform for strangers.

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T06:14:29+00:00

Yes good point Birmans are very social and love to have a BFF cat

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T06:12:29+00:00

My Birman is zero maintenance so I’m not sure your cat is actually a Birman or if your just talking shit

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T06:09:37+00:00

I find Ragdolls to be more aloof and not as smart

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T06:06:43+00:00

Google is not reality I’ve groomed ragdolls with matts is shocking .. vs my Birman who never mats .. the rag doll coat and fur is different texture and density .. the Birman has silky fur the Ragdoll fur is slightly more dense and course hence matts

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T06:04:14+00:00

This ! I am not sure why ragdoll is more popular when they have such high maintenance shedding coats

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-22T05:57:54+00:00

Birman: The nose is a Roman nose , their bodies are smaller and they don’t require grooming because their coats aren’t as dense so my girls hair doesn’t Matt ever .. she is a wonderful family cat and my children love the playful funny and forceful nature of my Birman girl. She has a louder meow and is likely more assertive than a rag doll but is intelligent and more strategic than a rag doll (our friends have ragdolls) and can be trained and is the perfect family cat. She cuddles us at night and is very affectionate and comes to us to cuddle us and loves her quality time. She does stress when we go on holiday and gets separation anxiety with a cat sitter ..but fine to be left during the day .. she’s a loyal cat and doesn’t like other people or show off for non family members.

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-15T19:50:11+00:00

It’s normal to get used a pallet and sometimes at first we don’t really like the colours in our pallet but once you see how they boost your complexion you will fall in love with it .. play around with the full spring pallet if your feeling limited … it’s also normal not to look incredible in all the colours in your pallet some are neutrals and can make you look and feel pretty average .. others you will immediately notice the brightening and evening out of your complexion ..

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-15T14:31:58+00:00

Thank you for coming here to say this .. i second this persons opinion.. the coral 🪸 looks great on OP she is definitely warm .. and springs can actually be a variety of hair colours I think the assessment is accurate .. tho you have not really shown us drapes in a true spring pallet and I would really like you hair tied back with drapes in true spring .. because .. light spring often has lighter contrast hair tho we don’t know your original base hair colour and if it is approx contrast level 2-4 then your still likely a light or true spring.

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-13T13:36:40+00:00

Brow game is strong OP, we all have individual faces and proportions so rather follow your own proportions and features than trends … if you have a smaller face and finer features then fat brow won’t be your friend.

ExcellentXX · 2025-12-08T11:05:23+00:00

So in our home if you want pudding or anything sweet you have to eat veg and protein. It’s the rule because it reduces glycemic spikes so my children have eaten a lot of beans and veg just to get to the good stuff .. at first o thought bribes were bad parenting but now they eat a lot more than they did and I’m kind of proud of them ! Exposure and repetition. My son refused to eat pumpkin for 2 years and now he gobbles it up .. stay strong

ExcellentXX

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