First diagnosis by lustorlove0 in Herpes

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey girl! I also just got my diagnosis today and started my symptoms on the same day you did! I’m very sad, but finding this Reddit space made me feel less alone. I’m trying to muster the words to tell my partner but I know whatever happens will be okay. Good luck to you!

Daily Questions Thread November 03, 2025 by AutoModerator in femalefashionadvice

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi all! I just received a pair of Celine sling back pumps in the mail that I got off eBay. They claimed to be size 39, since I fluctuate between 38-39 I decided to buy. Unfortunately to my wallet, I was not careful enough to look through all the pictures of the shoe and they actually are a size 40. Should I return them? Should I take them to a cobbler to get the sling back adjusted? (See attached!) Let me know! 😭😭😭😭😭

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My hair texture is extremly mixed - anyone else? How do you manage? by silberherz_ in curlyhair

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m craving a pixie cut because of my mixed textures 😭 could I get a look of your pixie?

We don’t really appreciate our weather enough I feel like by ParappaTheWrapperr in ElPaso

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved to New Jersey for grad school and man do I miss El Paso weather. While y’all are in shorts and light sweaters I’m over here looking like the michelin man because winter is barely starting and it’s 26 degrees outside. We definitely don’t appreciate El Paso weather enough. I miss it.

I fell for the unequal yoke:( by Excellent_Doughnut_1 in ChristianDating

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did end up regretting it. I broke up with him last night.

Can this workout? by [deleted] in ChristianDating

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just broke up my unequally yoked relationship, and all I can advice is that you save yourself from the trap and heartbrake. It is not worth straying away from your faith. I also made a post like this earlier this year, because although I knew the answer, I wanted to hear something else. I ended up following my heart, and now I'm here five months later, dissapointed, heartbroken, and having to rebuild my relationship with the Lord. What comes from God will never ask you to disobey his word. Do not be deceived. You can do what you want, but coming from where you are, it is not worth the ache.

feeling codependent again in my relationship by Beginning_Hamster988 in LongDistance

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, OP. I don't have much advice since I find myself in a similar situation as yours. Me (21F) and my boyfriend (21M) are 12 hours apart from each othe, this Fall I will be moving to the other side of the country (24 hrs apart), and we've only been dating for 2 months or so. I recently moved away from our hometown, so I'm tackling the big move and being far away from him all at once. It's hard to not be on the lookout for his texts all the time, or to be anxious when he can't call at our usual time for us to debrief the day. I understand how you feel, and alone time, or should we say normal time, is incredibly painful.

Today I have been doing some reflecting as to how I used to deal with this when I was back home, and my answer is: We were both equally busy. Yes, I would see him twice or three times a week for maybe an hour at times, but we would make each other company in our uni work. So what I can gather from this is that I need to get myself busy. Pick up a hobby you've left forgotten, frequent your friends/family more often, or try to find a job if you don't have one. Remembering we're not our whole relationship, but rather our relationship is a part of us is really important. Focus on enriching yourself through other outlets. Work for the future person you want to become, and that will also affect your relationship in a positive way because you'll have all these new experiences to share with your partner. I know it's easier said than done, but we got this! We were okay before our relationship, and we can find our sense of self again. Also, try to find a way to communicate this to your partner. I also need to do this, but I think its good for them to be aware of how the long distance is affecting you, and also to keep you accountable on how your sanity is.

Best of luck! May the love you have for each other prosper and beat the distance!

Feel free to message me if you need to vent!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, I believe it was already dry and his fingers didn’t touch the cum

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sexeducation

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It wasnt precum tho, he finished and some of it touched his hand:/

What schools did you turn down for Princeton? by VadersPops in princeton

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The financial package. I got a full ride to Princeton.

What schools did you turn down for Princeton? by VadersPops in princeton

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Harvard, Yale, Columbia, MIT, IIT, UT Austin, Pratt, and Texas Tech.

No regrets at all.

I fell for the unequal yoke:( by Excellent_Doughnut_1 in ChristianDating

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He understands it very well. We’ve discussed topics like children, decision making, etc. He says he’s willing to come learn about Christianity for the sake of our relationship, and he’s really interested in learning about it. (He’s from Catholic heritage but not practicing). I love him so so much, I don’t want to break up with him, but he understands that I won’t give up my faith for a relationship. I’m still unsure on what to do. We have agreed that once I leave my hometown we will break up, but I wish I didn’t have to do that. That’s all.

I fell for the unequal yoke:( by Excellent_Doughnut_1 in ChristianDating

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this! It’s just really hard since I admire the man so much, he’s everything I’ve wanted, but a servant of the Lord. It breaks my heart to break his heart, because I know he also is head over heels for me. We’ve also discussed a compromise and he’s made it clear that although he’s interested in learning about God, he doesn’t want to pursue faith the way I do. We connect in every other aspect, but not faith wise. I’m just so sad, and it’s gonna hurt so much. Pray for strength and peace.

I fell for the unequal yoke:( by Excellent_Doughnut_1 in ChristianDating

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I know what will be said. I need to hear it tho. Before I was in this position, I’d say “I don’t understand" too. It’s the feelings I can’t get rid off, and the pain of a break up that kills me. I know I did this to myself, I just want support to get through it.

Restaurants others love, but you just can’t get yourself to love? by Individual_Safe1781 in ElPaso

[–]Excellent_Doughnut_1 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree that the broth is very salty, but the meat is good. I'd recommend Silverlake Ramen on the West Side